Fiancés female colleague can’t go a few days without texting him?

[Anonymous]

She is texting and calling him every few days. I feel pretty hurt. It’s been going on for long. As far as I know it’s mostly her initiating. All I want is a few boundaries in place before we marry. Am I overreacting?

[EmmaMary]

It's about time you had some very serious words with your fiancé... Explaining that this is completely and totally out of order, that you're not happy at all with this situation, and unless something is immediately done in rectifying this, then you will have no alternative other than reviewing the so- called relationship.

[Asker]

I feel like some others think in overreacting, so you truly don’t think I am? I think it is mostly her initiating everything. She can’t go too long without messaging him or calling him, despite her seeing him at work

[dudeinohio]

This is totally inappropriate. It is borderline emotional cheating. I'd reconsider your relationship. Certainly I'd discuss It with her.

[Zestyassmf1997]

Texting and calling about what?