Is it normal for a new boyfriend to go 1 whole day without texting his girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I started dating this guy and I noticed 2 weeks into the relationship he will go 1 full day without initiating texts with me. I dont know why he can go 1 full day without hearing from his girlfriend - what is going on? I asked and he just said he is figuring out how much I feel comfortable with communicating but I think that is BS, please help! Me and him are both 40 years old.

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to determine the intentions behind your boyfriend's behavior without more context, but it's not abnormal for couples to have different communication styles and preferences. Some people prefer to communicate more frequently, while others may need more space and time to themselves.

However, it's important to communicate your expectations and needs in a relationship and to make sure that both partners feel comfortable and respected. If you feel like your boyfriend's lack of communication is causing you distress or insecurity, it's important to have an open and honest conversation about your feelings and needs.

It's possible that your boyfriend may be going through a busy or stressful period in his life, or he may simply have different communication preferences than you. It's important to approach the situation with empathy and understanding, while also setting boundaries and communicating your needs in a calm and respectful manner.

Remember, the most important thing is to prioritize your own emotional wellbeing and to make choices that are best for you, regardless of someone else's behavior or intentions.

[shades777]

yes, and no. depends on the relationship or how deep your in love. clearly you love him more

[Anonymous]

initially I would say that is a bit odd but I am only 20 and I feel like maybe people who are your age text less frequently and are on their phones less? you would obviously know better than me

[In_Trance]

Sure