Help please? He's a jerk but very hot....

[1catydid]

this guys who goes to my school likes me, I used to like him and he is unbelievably hott but the problem is that he is a jerk, he is mean, and rude, and digusting, he treats people so badly. He does it to keep all the girls from liking him (most girls like him even though he is a jerk), and I think he is gonna ask me out. what do I do?

[berrylublee]

You're asking this question becouse deep down, maybe not too deep, you want to say yes when he does ask you out. The decision is entirely up to you, but before you do anything big, ask yourself: How do I want to be treated? or better yet, How do I deserve to be treated?

Most girls walk into bad relationships not knowing the guy is a jerk. You already know, so why give yourself a heartache? Trust, he won't be so hot when he's being a jerk to you in front of everyone.

Let the hot loser be rude to someone else.

Good Luck!

[Inkweaver2]

Jerk = No in my book. Who cares if he is hot if he is going to treat you like crap to your face and cheat on you when your back is turned? If you even think he MIGHT do those things, then I don't think it is worth it. Personality is what is really important. A lot less girl would get their hearts broken if they stopped dating jerks.

[EmmaxXx]

Well it all depends whether you want a serious relationship or just some action! Maybe try it out if you like him, and if you don't like the way he's acting,dump the jerk! x

[ArmsLength]

Err. . .

"He does it to keep all the girls from liking him"

What makes you believe that's why he's doing it?

"he is a jerk, he is mean, and rude, and digusting, he treats people so badly."

What makes you think he'll treat you differently? *sigh* So many girls think, "But I can change him!" and end up getting proven wrong.

"(most girls like him even though he is a jerk)"

*Bangs head against wall repeatedly.* Kids.

[1catydid]

Lmao hahahahahahaha I know he does it to push the girls away because I confronted him about it, and no I don't think I can change him, and hahahahahahahahahahahaha "*Bangs head against wall repeatedly*" that's so funny, and yes I agree that's why I don't hang out with freshmen I hang out with seniors, much less drama lol

[ArmsLength]

Personally, I consider the fact that he's trying to keep girls away a bad sign. Maybe he has home & family issues. Maybe he has reason not to trust himself. Maybe he's just a general misanthrope filled with loathing for self & others. I don't know. I'd walk away.

But he's hot, so many girls won't, and he's going to learn that being hot excuses all. *sigh* Well, good luck if you go for it, but I think you're gonna need it.

[1catydid]

Hahaha no my brother is misanthrope I would know and no he is a jerk because he has to keep the girls off of him, I know of about 100 girls who like him (girls bathroom) and he isn't using being hott as an excuse I think he's trying to protect himself from being a piece of meat hahaha lol

[Hercules]

If he's serious about a relationship and you like him, then go for it. I would make absolutely sure you move the relationship along VERY VERY VERY slowly to prevent him from just getting some "action" and moving on.