How do you deal with someone who acts like they did nothing wrong after an argument?

[Anonymous]

[strateguy632]

say "i will apologize if you will apologize". they will say "for what?" so i will say for the specific behabvior or words, if they do not apologize i will dump on the spot and find someone decent. even digory apologized in book magicians nephew.

[mobiusforniner]

It’s taken me a long time to confront this type of behavior because it’s what I grew up with. Parents never apologized even when they were flat out wrong. I normalized it.

Fact is, it is not okay. And if someone truly loves you they’d find ways to mutually respect and compromise to improve the relationship, not work so hard to prove they’re right

people who do this are emotionally immature and selfish.

to answer your question, you cut them off. Like completely.

[bobalife]

He’s emotionally immature & unwillingly to communicate…. Not worth the battle tbh. You’ll become emotionally drained, hurt, resentful, or most likely gas lighted :/
run girl run.


A good relationship builds on open communication, listening and taking accountability, and conflict resolutions.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

It's not easy to give you an answer when there are so many details left out.

[petitedollbabee]

You don’t - you leave them alone and don’t tolerate them.

[Asker]

What if you live with them?

[petitedollbabee]

Why would you want to live with someone who is emotionally immature to the point where they take no accountability or see no fault in their actions/words?

[Nikki1989]

You don't put up with that. You simply move on without them.

[Tharithi]

Maybe she did nothing and it’s your fault. Don’t gaslight

[jahaims]

Cut them off