What do you think of someone walking away from an argument?

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lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

depends who it is talking to. some people anymore are unreasonable, I've never seen people so head strong and opinionated at times... just saw a knock down drag out with hurt feelings about facebook policy... lol!

I'd just say, we agree to disagree and end it at that.
if it is someone I really care about, I listen to their opinion, and reaffirm my care for them, that most issues don't matter that much to cause emotional harm and try and make it feel ok. If I feel strongly about it, then I say that, but accept their view.

this stuff can trash relationships... it's not worth it.

Liam_Hayden · Accepted Answer

This needs some context.

1. Do you mean immediately when one starts and he/she has no rational response?
2. Do you mean when you are the one receiving B. S. and lies and, disgusted with it, walk away?
3. Do you mean people who just don't like the tension?

kdizzleforizzle91 · Accepted Answer

It depends on the person and how serious the topic of the argument is.

Some people need to cool off and gather their thoughts so they can better articulate what they have to say, and it may be a very sensitive issue with several perspectives and factors to consider.

The person could also just be immature and not good at communicating with others, and the topic of discussion could make them uncomfortable or result in them looking bad and they may want to save face by just not discussing the problem.

StingRayxoxo · Accepted Answer

I dont like that at all. But I could say, "Please give me some space while I think about what I want to say or do." Like next room. I would not be okay with my SO leaving/walking away. That to me shows big problems that might need counseling.

Angelina25 · Answer

I feel Indifferent. They might not be in the state of mind to continue the argument, they might also be a coward. Really depends.

Eryxx · Answer

I think it's different for everyone. Some people just aren't into arguing, some like arguing but in a friendly manner and as soon as it comes to bashing each other, they may quit. Some argue using logics and facts and seeing no point of arguing with someone who just can't stand losing an argument, no matter how illogical they may sound, makes the smarter one walk away. Some have plenty of shit to speak but they just aren't in the mood at that time or don't consider it worthy to argue. Still, some are cowards who after picking up an argument, don't know how to support it.

sassygirl13 · Answer

I don't like to argue and usually avoid it as I don't feel the need to prove my point if I'm totally convinced of my opinion as I based my opinions solely on logic but if someone kept arguing then they are better to be prepared to back up their opinion as I will be very critical, harsh and won't back down even if it annoyed them.

They better walk away from the beginning or be very prepared.

Grond21 · Answer

It really depends on why they're doing it. If they're just fed up then it's not productive. If it's to make a point or make the other person feel guilty, it's not productive.

But if you need it in order to process, then it can be okay. as long as you make that very clear from the beginning, and you are walking away so that you can come back with a clear head and finish working it out.

Leaving stuff unfinished just means it's buried and will fester, only to come up later in a far more deadly form.

PinkMichae · Answer

It might not feel great but I'd rather them walk away than say something out of anger they don't mean. In my experience when someone walks away it's because they need that space to calm down. Nothing gets solved when its heated and you likely won't understand each other.

justicebooks1 · Answer

They don't want to deal with this bullsh*t , two they don't want to get in a physical confrontation with that person. But the person their walking away from will probably think their a coward , a chicken sh*t or that their bluntly ignoring them. But I just think its best to walk away unless you are in the wrong.

So just be upfront in the argument and try to reason but if you can't walk away let both you and the person calm down.

sunshine2098 · Answer

I’m personally that type of person that I just need to walk away.. but because I need time to process it and not just react out of emotional impulse.. because i most often say things I regret and hurt the other person. So I rather get my space and get myself in a calm state of mind.

Gothd011 · Answer

Indifferent...(most the time Im walking away)

It better be something that life-changing or really important to get me to form words long enough.

I will humor the person for as long as my attention span cares to have any fucks than after that...

Always depends on how the person is presenting themselves. Are they being st8 up disrespectful or do they sound like they are two year old once an again? One should walk away. Nothing going to get solve that day.

Ellie-V · Answer

That’s what I do 😂 when the argument starts to seem pointless or if the person is getting on nerves too much, I just leave. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that and if the same were to be done to me (and it has), then obviously the conversation is over. There’s no need to harp over a dead end.

MermaidMotel · Answer

I don't think they're a coward at all. Sometimes, you're just tired of an argument, or can't even be bothered to argue anymore. It's hard to keep that same heated and angry energy for a long period of time. If we've been arguing for 30 mins straight and STILL haven't gotten anywhere, I'm honestly just done.

HitGirl_007 · Answer

It depends. Sometimes it’s a good thing and is absolutely needed / necessary. Maybe they need to calm down process their thoughts so as to not say or do something in the heat of the moment

On the other hand if they are walking away to avoid it altogether then that’s a different story! And won’t fix the problem at hand

NineBreaker · Answer

Most of the time arguing is completely pointless and does nothing but stoke more anger.

If I'm arguing with someone in a mostly calm and respectful manner, I have no reason to walk away. Call me names, keep inturrupting me, and yelling at me, and I will turn around and walk away in a heart beat. I will not engage with you untill you calm down. Otherwise, I'm out. I'm not obligated to stand there and take any advise from anyone.

randombrunette07x · Answer

unless I’m trying to make a really valid/important point then i’ll walk away and not entertain most arguments. waste of time, i personally think it’s a mature thing to do it’s so much better than causing and scene and/or letting things get worse

Hrithik1994 · Answer

Maybe he thinks he is loosing an argument so he better walks away or he may think of u as stupid to even argue about anything so he doesn't give a damn.. And lots of peoole would just ignore u whatever u say and then u just think after sometime that yay u said something which was not to be said... haPpened with me one or two times

Thedivinechic · Answer

Sometimes walking away can keep an argument from escalating BUT eventually, the topic that caused the argument in the first place might rise up again later. So, sometimes it's better to get it over with and talk about it now rather than later. Also, nothing is worse than the silent treatment it may give some people the right to cheat. The mature way is to talk calmly or agree to disagree.

TonyBologna25 · Answer

It's the mature thing to do. When we get heated in the moment, we're only utilizing the emotional side of our brain, and a solution won't come from that. A solution will only come when both parties are in a calm and logical state of mind. Arguments also kill romance and cause resentment.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends. If it is because it's some stranger or someone they are not so close to that tries to trigger them and loves drama for no reason it's Good.

But if it's someone they are close to and it's something serious and they walk away every time a problem comes then it's bad.

pootytangg · Answer

I do it all the time. Just like you feel like it your right to talk about it right then and there. I feel like I should walk away cool off and prepare myself to not act out of anger.

AriesMale · Answer

Depends on the argument, and his personality.

On the basis of the argument, if it’s something non-important then they get a pass. If it’s something critical and they run away, then that’s just immaturity and not dealing with a situation.

On the basis of the personality, if they’re talkative and confrontational and they walk away then that’s a red flag. If they’re more silent, then they need time to think, but only for a moment or depending on the severity of the topic.

inmensus · Answer

It's way more mature than getting heated and let things get out of hand. Sometimes it's better to take a break/leave if you know you could "lose" it.

Xx420xxDANKOxx420xX · Answer

"He who shuts up; wins." People are often too stupid (at least 90% in my instances) to accept that they are wrong or didn't see the whole picture, and that's when I think it's time to shut up and leave the argument.

GlitterStorm85 · Answer

I'd rather walk away in an argument cause I say a lot of stupid stuff when arguing. I let my emotions of anger get the best of me when I have always said to myself I'd rather walk away. I grew up watching my parents argue everyday and never wanted to an example of them. I always said to myself I would be careful as to what i say in an argument. My anger takes the best of me causing me to say stupid things most of the time my feelings are hurt.

MusicMayhem · Answer

It means they can't handle conflict so they avoid the situation. Or the other person is being ridiculous so it's better to leave them alone and come back to the issue later when they are less emotional and willing to listen to reason.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on circumstance. If they're flailing to provide a counter-point to your arguments and just walk away it doesn't look good for your position if you're not defending yourself. Similarly in you're just throwing insults at me instead of being reasonable then I might just opt out because I'm not interested in a name-calling/shouting contest.

SarahVanRensburg · Answer

I can't stand it when people do this. Especially when they say what they want to but then don't give you the chance to do the same. I get mad when people do that.

RasmusAiken · Answer

It makes me think that you may have argued with them unfairly. There are techniques of argument that can both help you win your point and yet not be a personal attack.

purplepoppy · Answer

I don't bother arguing with those too dumb to understand or si dogmatic in their views its pointless. Often better to walk away and let tempers calm before renegotiating too.

princessfromjupiter · Answer

They either don’t have a point or do have a point but the other person is too stubborn/arrogant to acknowledge it and they chose to go by the “the smarter one gives in rhetoric”

ImagineSketchy · Answer

They diffused an argument, can be seen as the bigger person, prefer to avoid conflict, or they genuinely felt strong enough about the topic to avoid it.

Junkberry99 · Answer

Like, I know I walk away because sometimes something in me snaps over the smallest thing. And if I don't walk away things could go south fast

Factshurt90 · Answer

Argument? I always walk away. We need to be listening to each other. Arguments are just heated emotional rantings.

Syrian_survivor · Answer

I only walk away from arguments when I can't take it anymore, especially when it's with a person dear to my heart, I trust my feelings with them so a loud argument with them would hurt the more it goes on, I'd need time to collect myself again.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on the argument. If the argument is pointless and not really going anywhere, walking away is the mature thing to do I believe.

zoe2187 · Answer

I walk way when I can’t think straight anymore. I don’t want to say anything I can’t take back. I’m fine when someone does the same with me.

Grobmate · Answer

Mich better to cool off and return for a "discussion", than to continue an argument. So long as it gets resolved calmly and timely.

feelgoodnow · Answer

Walk away calm down then talk about it, it's hard when a narc just wants to chase you down and get you to react!

Anonymous · Answer

It makes a lot of sense when someone is pushing your buttons and not actually arguing with any constructive point - walk away before they push you into saying or doing something you'll regret later.

apple24 · Answer

Don’t u date! I’d just move on. I don’t want date someone who isn’t honest n won’t have a difficult conversation... like u!!

jessture · Answer

Way too many variables. Sometimes the person walking away can't handle the truth, and sometimes the person walking away needs to get away from someone being completely unreasonable.

Ïllūsíøñêd · Answer

It makes me so angry, I'll be shouting at them to get right back over so we can finish. Of course they dont and I get even more angry. Very rude to do

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

They just don't have it in them to deal with it at the moment... no big deal.

foodtv · Answer

Mixed feelings, sometimes it's good while other times it's not.

MatinBrumeux · Answer

Depends on the argument. Sometimes it shows lack of maturity, and other times it shows maturity.

theCAP · Answer

Sometimes if the conversation becomes heated walking away may be the best thing to do.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's either: -Immature -Good (they may become more or less angry and violent, thus walking away when wanting to hurt me/etc) -Disappointing -Humorous

XavierSteele · Answer

I think that not only are they the stronger of the two, but they are also the wiser of them,

A-man-22 · Answer

If it's too early then negatively. But it takes much inner strength to walk away from an intense argument that isn't going to help anyone. So if it's dragging on I'd respect them.

Brady · Answer

I like it better if someone puts up for them self if the other started it for no reason. However sometimes you have to stop or the starter will keep going.

needhelp777 · Answer

I think it is good so both of the people can calm down and then talk about it when they are calm

clampfan101 · Answer

I think it’s often the more mature thing to do. Calm your mind and, if it was a serious problem, come back when you can try to end it calmly.

sasukeuchiha7 · Answer

That's good. I don't need to waste more energy on the argument.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

A pussy! Nah, someone that sees no further value in blabbing back and forth. They decided to walk off into the sunset, most likely enraging the other person.

joyce69 · Answer

At times it's good in order to avoid fighting or beating when the argument is getting out of hand. So you walk away and later come back to settle the matter

Mikey_Ramone · Answer

There's no point in staying there unless you're a good debater.

terrancemac34 · Answer

Clearly they got a enough headaches over nothing and would rather not deal with non sense.

janna_jcb · Answer

If they tell me that they want to cool off for a second I support that. If they just randomly walk away I get very annoyed

sp33d · Answer

If we're going to live together, any and all concerns should be voiced. I won't let her walk away, just like I expect she wouldn't let me.

aloha96 · Answer

I don’t like it, but someone’s the person just needs to think before they talk and that’s because some people are internal processors

yucel_eden · Answer

I argue with people that want to argue like a grown up. Once I notice someone being a little child and lashing out I just walk away or stop listening

BButterfly · Answer

Sometimes it means the person is strong and sometimes it means that person is weak and doesn't know how to handle an argument.

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