Why do women ghost, avoid, and cut out, people out of their lives more than men?

[Anonymous]

Not even in romantic relationships. The relatives in my family who estranged themselves from me are mostly women, the people who blocked by number, and stuff are mostly women. The friends who cut themselves out of my life are mostly women. I see it with other people also. Is that a evolutionary thing or something?

[razelove]

Options. Most women can act as if other people, well, aren't people, and still have plenty of other people, especially men, rushing forward to fill those gaps.

If men were to act the same way, we'd be alone, with few opportunities to replace who we cut out. At the same time a man with no friends is an oddity, and it makes it harder for a guy to approach other people, men or women, to make more friends.

I don't think it's something good, or bad, just a difference in what options we generally have, as well as how we treat relationships. Most women don't simply discard everyone in their lives who don't serve a purpose. The ones who do stand out like a jet engine as they operate the same, sucking people in and spitting them out as used exhaust.

[Asker]

I’m sure a lot of the people that get rejected end up successful someday, a lot of people will regret rejecting them.

[razelove]

Doubtful, I've had to cut people out of my life before, I don't think about them anymore, and if I hear from them just disengage as quickly as possible, regardless of their success or how their present is.

If someone was close to me at some point and isn't in my life it's because they did something that causes me to no longer trust them, who cares if they're successful or not, I won't regret distancing from someone I can't trust.

For the mentality you're talking about, users, who knows, maybe they do regret that a discarded pawn could have been a rook, what that type thinks doesn't concern me either.

[Asker]

I don’t mean actually toxic people I mean kicking people out of your life because you find them boring, or something.

[razelove]

Umm, the closest I can think to that are people who were never really in my life, casual relationships and ONS. Things just don't line up for them to be keepers, or for me to be a keeper for them in a couple cases.

Regardless I can't even remember what most of them looked like, much less whether it would be worth it to regret that they aren't in my life or anything like that. Most likely that is a two way street, and precisely what a casual relationship is.

[boggboss]

I dont think they are think this is somthing people are doing more often

[Asker]

It’s become more of a common a theme since about 2016-2017ish in my experience. I don’t know why?

[Anonymous]

Woman are becoming heartless objects these days.

[Asker]

I wouldn’t say heartless. It’s always been that way in my lifetime. Men just value relationships more and don’t get offended or feel the need to cut people out of their lives as often.

[laly520]

shame on u

[laly520]

humans aren't objects