Why do WOMEN BLAME men for nearly ALL their problems?

Question

I see on this site and outside of it on social media that women blame men practically for every problem that happens to them. This includes blaming men for objectification of women, blaming men for them making less money, blaming men for poor life choices that comes back to bite them in the ass years later. Why is it women want men to respect them and be treated as equal, yet take no responsibility for their decisions whether they be good or bad?

hellionthesagereborn · Accepted Answer

Because society and men let them. The problem is we are biologically wired to want to protect women but not men. This makes sense biologically as women dictate population growth and thus over all suvival of the species. If we have ten men and ten women and nine men die you can still have ten offspring, if however it is reversed and nine women die there can be only one offspring. This results in society favoring women above all else as our suvival depends upon them more so then men (this is also the reason why we have the interactions we do and why men are disposable in the eyes of society). However feminism has exploited this natural tendency and framed essentially everything as women being the victim. This results in women needing to blame some one for everything and men being the disposable ones in society are the ones blamed. For instance with your example of Bree Olsen, normally if men would stand up for themselves we would all, men and women in society would point out that everything she is experiencing is due to her life choices, she knew that it was going to end poorly and she chose her path anyway, however with feminism constantly pushing the victim button mens natural instinct is to protect the woman and thus to look for the thing that is causing harm. Since she cannot be both a victim and perpetrator this causes cognitive dissonance, we know she is to blame but we need to protect her so the only target available are the people who are judging her for her actions (literally the only thing you should judge a person on) and due to the protective instinct it is men who then function like a sin eater and take the blame for her choices. This by the way is also why if you point out all the wrongs women do they (as the womens comments show) immediatley throw it back at men, acknowledging wrong doing on there part takes away the power of victimhood leaving them with just the personal responsibility which they have been conditioned by feminism/sjw and biology to avoid. This is why its so important to never let women get away with things because it just feeds this (same goes for men but society by its nature cannot give this treatment to them hence it being found only with women)

spoonman2014 · Accepted Answer

From my life experience, when a woman is wrong about something, she can't take it. Even when it is blatantly their fault they will try everything they can to get out of it. I remember one time about a year ago, my mom had allowed her niece last minute to have a kids birthday party at her house, because she was going to rent out a place to do it but couldn't afford it. It was our family, kid 1's baby dad and his family, kid 2's baby dad and family, her step siblings family. So it ended up being like 80 people in a 4 bedroom, 2 story, 2 bathroom 2 car garage house. Well once everyone left after she was begging everyone to help her clean since the house was trashed and when I pointed out the fact it was all her idea she burst into tears making me look like an ass. When I know if I pulled that stunt she wouldn't have helped me.

I know another girl with like 20 different mental and personality disorders and she will not take her pills, she wonders why she all these issues. I tried to be a good human being and after months of torture I cursed her out and cut her off. She still tried to get out of it, all because I'm one of few who refused to stick his head in the ground and act like nothing was wrong

udolipixie · Accepted Answer

Why do WOMEN BLAME men for nearly ALL their problems?
I find very few people actually take responsibility and accountability for their actions. Likely the same reason guys blame gals for nearly all their problems. But of course when men blame gals it's just rightful complaints or accurate criticisms (which to me is cowshit and bullshit). This includes:

- blaming gals for objectification of men as tools/atms

- blaming gals for them approaching/initiating

- blaming gals for getting custody when stats show child custody is generally decided out of court and guys hand it off to the gals and when guys ask for custody they generally get it

- blaming gals for rejecting them (so many guys have themselves on such a pedestal that there can be no possible reason any gal could reject him other than he's nice and gals want assholes. it's amusing to me as I find gals can rattle on and on about why a guy may reject her but most guys seem to have only 1 response)

- blaming guys for poor life choices that comes back to bite them in the ass years later ie not going to college, not graduating college (somehow it's the evil wimmez fault guys choose certification and trade jobs)

I find guys often try to shift the blame for their own actions onto gals. Raped a gal- she was asking for it, she shouldn't have worn that top. Assault a gal- she provoked him. Lashed out upon rejection- she should have done X, Y, Z if she didn't want him to make a rape threat. Groped a gal- boys will be boys. Creepy behavior blasted on social media- how dare you announce what I did and make me feel bad or face consequences for it.

samhradh_leannan · Accepted Answer

The whole dynamic between the genders has become one big orgy of blame. Both men and women are responsible for that. Being right has become more important than cooperating and working together towards actual progress, and that's very sad.

P. S. The woman in that video is talking about how "people" treat her. Not how "men" treat her.

Wonderer89 · Accepted Answer

Seriously? Have you seen some of the men's posts on here? This isn't a gender specific problem - it's people in general refusing to be accountable for their actions. Sure people do bad things but how we react to those will ultimately determine the outcome.

This is in no way a female based issue

RJGraveyTrain · Accepted Answer

We live in a time where everyone is trying to prove who is more of a victim than who. It isn't just women on this site, trust me. Dudes who can't get laid blame it on women on this site every day, not taking into account that they haven't ran a meter in 12 years and shower once a week.

Cicero1776 · Answer

Example, I stopped blowing money on nice vehicles, because my wife has done body damage to every vehicle we have ever owned save one, and throws trash everywhere inside, let's the kids eat in the car and grind food into the seats and floor, spill soda, taxis her divorced friend and her kids around who do the same, and then won't ever deep clean it, but I'm the a$$hole cause I won't blow thousands of dollars on nice vehicles for her to trash. The other day she had to drive my truck and I told her to be careful, first hour she hits a pole and rips off one of the fender flares, but guess what, it was my fault because I made her nervous by telling her to be careful. I will acknowledge that this problem isn't isolated to women, but this is life for me, I'm the fixer, the atm, the rescuer, and if I don't do those things I'm the problem, and if I point out why things happened or try to suggest solutions I'm judgmental, and overly critical, or I'm tearing her down. All her friends and family are really good at getting mad at her for her BS, but for some reason also good at telling her how I'm responsible for all the problems in the marriage.

notallthere98 · Answer

1. Blaming men for the obectifitcation of women. Well, I don't know maybe because men DO objectify women and it's up to us to stop that, not them
2. Blaming men for making less money. Gee, that couldn't have anything to do with the fact that usually men are their bosses and set their wages, and decide to pay women less. Plus their male co-workers are happy to sit back and let it happen, rather than asking why the women who has been there just as long/longer than them gets paid less for the same job

Bandit74 · Answer

She was able to make 30k a month for getting fucked on camera and can currently afford to not leave the house for weeks, yet now we are supposed to feel bad for her and regard her in the same sort of way we would a woman who studied to become a nurse.

Thats the fucking trade off. If getting fucked on camera carried no shame and granted you the same ammount of respect as women who became nurses or lawyers then there would be a lot more women interested in working in porn, which would also probably make it less lucrative.

Jo1001 · Answer

Why do MEN BLAME women for nearly all THEIR problems?

cth96190 · Answer

Interacting with women is a shit test that does not end.
Men need to ask themselves whether or not the juice is worth the squeeze.
I say, let all those strong independent women live up to their rhetoric and do it for themselves.
Cat women, I see cat women everywhere.
MGTOW

Morning-Star · Answer

this is actually a great question with many deep answers. id say the most obvious is that chicks rely heavily on emotional intelligence - girls do it more often and intensely than men. openly blaming a guy inspires feelings of guilt and is a form of manipulation to get what they want. obviously it can be damaging to a target and their own ego/pride so i imagine its only really used in situations of desperation or when all other ideas have been expended.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

With my grandparents, I can see an obvious reason:

1. My grandpa frequently moves things without asking.
2. My grandma is 80 years old and incredibly forgetful.
3. She doesn't want to admit that she's losing her memory. Or her hearing.
4. Therefore, if she doesn't know where something is, it must be his fault.

Drives him nuts, and is embarrassing to watch. And they wonder why I'm not more excited to be there.

Browneye57 · Answer

That is how women think. Actually, they don't think, they feel. And there is no way that they can FEEL that they have any cause for anything bad that happens in their life - there is ALWAYS an external cause outside of themselves.

google this term: rationalization hamster

vonasaurus · Answer

women who blame men for everything do so for the same reason mgtow blame women for all their problems.

basically a small handful of bitter, very vocal idiots who'd rather be professional victims than take any responsibility for anything.

AleDeEurope · Answer

Don't use this site as an example of what women in real life think, women in here are mostly bitter man-haters, so obviously they'll blame men for everything. They do it due to hate and because it's easier to blame someone else.

Gokulb1 · Answer

as long as human lives in this planet.. everyone has the right to blame others on their own mistakes.. its the human law.. i dnt think only womens blame men.. it can happen vice versa as well

Love_Is_Eternal · Answer

Because most women have been brainwashed by feminism and the mainstream media. Women, more than men, love playing the victim. In my experience men are more likely to hold their hands up and admit fault, whereas women tend to have too much pride. They hate accepting fault. It's much easier for them to blame a man for their problems.

AgentG111 · Answer

It's easy for them to say the word men / man is their name of women / woman.

If you believe in that ancient book. We got a rib stolen to make them and then they listened to a snake to eat a forbidden fruit. All their problems stim for a snake and another female.

Tomcat68 · Answer

Because it’s easier to hold other people accountable than it is to take responsibility for your own actions. Everyone is looking for someone else to make them happy instead of taking responsibility for your own happiness.

Words_and_Wisdom · Answer

Women have been coddled. It all started with princess culture thanks to fathers spoiling their daughters. Women grow up to think they're owed everything in the world and they shouldn't have to work for it.

JimRSmith · Answer

Sometimes I think this site should be renamed GirlsHateGuys (and the other way around would work just as well too).

madhatters4 · Answer

i dont think we can say women blame men for all problems. maybe some women do but it's not fair or accurate to say that women blame all their problems on men

oddwaffle · Answer

Who else are they going to blame? You have two on the planet. One is the victim then the other must be the cause - women logic.

MaiNameIsSunshine · Answer

Both genders tend to blame each other, it's not exclusively a female or male thing.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Blaming others for your problems is not unique to women. It is extremely common in addictive personalities of both genders.

BreakerMorant · Answer

Women are less evolved than men and more likely, as children do, to try to blame someone else for their poor decisions. Men, on the other hand, are expected to shoulder the blame for their mistakes and are derided when they do not do this.

Mrwoo99 · Answer

Women can't help but choose assholes or bad quality men because they're irrational/illogical when choosing partners.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys blame other women for their problems too. It's not just girls who do it.

Jrossetti · Answer

Because women are never supposed to take any form of responsibility, duh!

eirik873 · Answer

I see your point. Its funny because rather than adressing the thing you've said in this post the women here just do exactly as you've said. Everything is our fault boys xD

Noxifer626 · Answer

Same reason you pretend their opression is their own doing.

TheWombRaider · Answer

Emotional wrecks... and u are always wrong dude duh!!!

Fn9393 · Answer

This is very simple, men are encouraged to be logical. Women are not. 🎆 give me a medal lol.

Soul_Mountain · Answer

Because women rely on their looks, not their brains.

LB33777 · Answer

I blame you for this question.

sp33d · Answer

There are idiots on both fronts. Case dismissed.

Anonymous · Answer

I thinks the blaming goes both ways.

willwhitez · Answer

It's not there fault who else can they blame?

Fredericvo · Answer

One word: FEMINISM Feminism is cancer.

JCT666 · Answer

Because "muh patriarchy".

ShayanMortazavi1998 · Answer

Men blame women for all of their problems too

Anonymous · Answer

Male hyperagency/female hypoagency.

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