Why do I always attract guys I don’t typically like? I’m not feeling them at all I don’t understand this?

[laurlaur101]

[JacobJordan]

Ah a classic. Well if you don't like them and you continue to attract then perhaps you need to go to places they don't frequent. Or perhaps you need to change how you are presenting you might be inadvertently encouraging the wrong type because of how you are acting, behaving, presenting. For example if you dress in revealing clothes you are likely going to attract douchebags if you dressed more modestly you would attract more than just douchebags. Or if you smoke, party, drink etc you attract different people than if you didn't

[DarkLegacy]

It is obvious that you only interested in guys based on appearance so it serves you right, women like you will always crash and burn. Also you come across as very selfish, for instance you are the only user I've come across that has asked more questions then questions answered.

You don't seem to have many followers on here do you, even though your have your picture showing, i wonder why

[laurlaur101]

Not completely some people’s personalities I don’t vibe with either so I don't know. So I have to go for people I don’t like and force it ok

[kylee2437]

Because at your age, it’s hard to find love that is typically mature. Guys your age want to screw around, and they typically have terrible game.

[KrakenAttackin]

@kylee2437. That's not true at all. There are plenty of men ber age who wound like a solid relationship. The problem is likely the type of guy she is attracted to.

[kylee2437]

@krankenattackin men that end up in relationships at the age most certainly fucked around while in those relationships but often the girlfriend doesn’t care because she’s either fucking around also or is partying too hard with friends to care. Very very very rare chance of her finding real love at the age of 20

[KrakenAttackin]

@kylee2437. Simply not true. If you choose fuck boys you get fuck boy results. This is entirely predictable and preventable by women, entirely.

[kylee2437]

@KrakenAttackin as a woman that has been through , it is true. And my twin sister in a 10 year relationship would similarly agree also. Her and her now fiancé were fucking around at that age. Now they are at an age where their love can flourish, that doesn’t mean they didn’t have bad points when they were just young and dumb

[KrakenAttackin]

@kylee2437 Again, totally preventable. Your sisters marriage is doomed to fail if they are both cheaters.

[kylee2437]

@KrakenAttackin not when they both aren’t currently cheating on each other. It’s been 6 years since they were 20. I applaud them for getting past the young and dumb stages. Doesn’t change the fact that this girl needs to put up with the young and dumb stages to find love.

My point here is, is maybe she shouldn’t focus on love so much but focus on life experiences that can being her to meeting someone she can love in the future. in my opinion 20 year olds shouldn’t be on dating apps seeking for love.

[KrakenAttackin]

@kylee2437. Fair enough. Let's also agree that dating apps are mostly about sex not finding a real partner.

[kylee2437]

@KrakenAttackin dating apps are literal cancer.

[KrakenAttackin]

@kylee2437. We have finally found common ground. Well said.

[Anonymous]

It is easy to do when most are not date worthy anyway.

[KrakenAttackin]

Anon... the post wall Karen speaks.

[Opinion Owner]

@KrakenAttackin The so easily triggered snowflake speaks. You are too predictable.

[KrakenAttackin]

Op... go back to Tinder.

[DarkLegacy]

@KrakenAttackin The fact that it has to hide behind anonymity to say it speaks volumes. Did you notice the blue anon saying all men are terrible. I call it blue anon because you could hardly call it a man

[KrakenAttackin]

@DarkLegacy So many of these women are chasing Chad's while 90+% of men are invisible to them.

[Billlewis]

Your personality probably attracts them, but theirs don't appeal to you. I've often experienced this dilemma.

[laurlaur101]

Yeah I guess my personality attracts any type of man the bad and the good I’m not going to stop being me tho

[exitseven]

Maybe you only want very good looking guys to hit on you. I'd a guy is average looking you will not look twice.

[laurlaur101]

Here’s the thing I still have to have some type of attraction or spark somehow both with looks and good personality like I don't know it’s hard to explain. I have to feel at ease and vibe with them sometimes I don’t feel that way with everyone

[exitseven]

On a scale of 1 to 10 in the looks department what is the average of guys you vibe with VS. The ones you. Do not

[noohair]

Change your vibe. You might appear naive and fuckable. The hunters love that. look for the shy guys and make moves. But don't hint. men do not get hints. They need small words and speak slowly.

[laurlaur101]

How so?

[ProbablyClueless]

Because you're relaxed and being your authentic self around guys you don't like.

[laurlaur101]

Acting this feels true. Guys u don’t typically like I feel like I can act more myself with then guys I would go for I can’t act the same because of the nerves messes me up I don't know why it shouldn’t

[Yannae]

They're attracted to your type. No need to look further.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I think that might happen to everyone at some point

[Chthou95]

80/20 rule. You're not attracted to most men but they're attracted to you and the men you want (the top 20%) dont notice you. An endless cycle

[Levin]

Please provide more detail and context.

[Anonymous]

You punch above your weight.