Is it common to feel like you're on an emotional rollercoaster in a relationship?

[black]

In most of my relationships so far, I felt this... Is it common or normal to feel like you're on an emotional rollercoaster in a relationship?

[benefiel]

Feeling like you're on an emotional rollercoaster in a relationship is pretty common. Relationships, especially in their early stages, can be filled with intense emotions, highs and lows, excitement, and anxiety. It is a part of getting to know someone better and figure out whether you are a good fit together.

These emotional ups and downs can be caused by a variety of factors. For one, there's the excitement of a new connection and the joy of discovering things you love about the other person. Then there is anxiety and fear of being rejected.​ All these feelings can coexist and make you feel like you're on a wild ride.

Relationships sometimes might trigger insecurities or past traumas. This is normal, but it can amplify the emotional rollercoaster. It's like suddenly all your fears and hopes are tied up with this other person, and that can be both exhilarating and terrifying.

Communication is key here. Talking openly about your feelings and experiences can help for the mood swings. Share your thoughts and emotions with your partner because you are in this together.

And remember, while the emotional rollercoaster is common, especially in the beginning, a relationship should also have periods of stability and comfort. If the highs and lows are too extreme or don't start to settle over time, it might be worth exploring why that is, potentially with a professional.

Relationships are a journey, not a race, and it's okay to take it at your own pace.

[Apple1996]

This is normal even with all relationships. Family, friends, romantic partners there are ups and downs in those relationships. Having another person in your life is gonna be a bit chaotic just because humans are crazy and difficult to deal with

[Finchie40]

It’s common if you are in a relationship with the wrong person , No relationship is perfect , but if you feel you are on a constant emotional rollercoaster ride , then that’s your answer to really reconsider that relationship , it’s unhealthy to be with someone that puts you through constant ups and downs

[dustybiker2]

You should feel safe in a relationship, with very little effort. If not you need to sit back and ask yourself why not.

[MemeSupreme]

yeah but you gotta for the fun rollercoasters

not those shitty woody ones where you feel like you might die

[KittygosMeoWW]

Ew no, that’s so toxic. Get out if this is how you feel

[Unycorn]

There is No Up without a down

Important is, that there are more timea going up

[sheikalana]

Sometimes it happens. Relationships go through different phases. Is not rainbows all the time.

[Nikki1989]

For people on here, sure.

[Afvenom]

Yes. You will never figure women out

[laly520]

common but unhealthy

[Radiate143]

Bipolar?