Do my girlfriend act fake?

[sjim508]

How do I deal with a fake girlfriend. I have a girlfriend that thinks she does nothing wrong. She always says when I bring up an issue that she is always wrong. I explained to her we both are wrong at times nobody is perfect. When she is around her friends or bestie, she does these fake crying and sob stories and wants to be on stage, or family she makes the relationship seem great. I'm starting to feel like this relationship is a setup, or she has a mental disorder. I'm getting to the point where I'm starting to feel depressed.

[JoePro_]

I'm leaning toward "mental disorder", but more probably an emotional disorder rooted in some trauma from her early life. I'd see it as a red flag, my dude. Hope she gets help at some point, but don't compromise your own mental health when she's causing issues. Get out while you can.

[sjim508]

Yeah vi hear ya. She just told me this morning she had a abusive relationship with a ex husband

[JoePro_]

If she's willing to talk about it with you, THEN maybe not a red flag. People who want to work through issues are rare, but when they come up, if you're a decent person, you might try to help them work through it. If you want to work on this with her, you might offer couples counseling, or helping her find a therapist for one on one. Otherwise, if that seems like too much work for you, and for some people it is (guy or girl), sometimes it feels like "too much" and they don't want to help carry extra baggage, but if you're one of those, then it would be best if you cut ties sooner rather than later. BUT I'm kind of a sappy dude. If I care for the girl, I'd do what I can to get her some help and see if things improve over the next year. Best of luck!

[slatyb]

Is she always watching or never wrong? Either ready she's not in shape to be on a relationship. Don't waste any more time on her.

[sjim508]

She always claims she always did things alone. I even helped her get her kids back from her dead beat ex she married at a young age, it just around her best friend she act different, family she treats me right, but best friend she acts like the world is ending. For example she will drink and drink and drink with her friend is over, but family nope. I have to spend my checks on her and her best friend while they drink up my check while she sleep all day long and I come home to clean, and all and cook and all. People are fast to blame a guy, but don't understand just as much guys mess up women messes up just as much. There time to the point where I had enough to fake being sick to get out of this relationship.

[slatyb]

What are you getting out of this?

[JacobJordan]

Run mate get your stuff and get out. And make sure you have that phone ready to record for when she tries to accuse you of rape or sexual assault or some other lie

[BonzoInBitburg]

Why is she your girlfriend?

[FunkyMonkee]

Me no know, do she?

[sjim508]

TBH I think she fact af. She put on different acts for different people.

[Anonymous]

There is always two sides to every story.

[sjim508]

Two sides, haha. Unfortunately I don't know who told you that lie. I understand life is not perfect. I will say this sometimes it is exactly is. Unfortunately you don't know me nor my girlfriend. Yup, ur right everyone has a story, one thing about me I can say about our relationship is that I get loud at times, but that still don't explain the situation that I wrote the problems with this world today is some people don't know how to own up to the problems that they are creating. For example, have I cheated in our relationship no, have she yes, have I lied no have she yes, the best she was having was not mine it was the guy she cheated on me with. She kiss on her bff, and he kisses on her, he grabs her ass and he straight, he calls her baby, the sleep in our bed. So I'm sorry tell me where there is two side of the storyline that you are speaking of?

[Anonymous]

Go to counseling with her

[sjim508]

She don't want that. She always thinks she's not in the wrong. today for example she was talking to her best friend about having an ex number that she could have laying around anywhere.

[Opinion Owner]

Good luck with her then

[Anonymous]

Why are you wasting your time then? Dumb