My girlfriend was at a friend’s house and was supposed to be home at 9 but ended up staying until later and her friend brought her home carrying her and she was not sober.. Her friend mentioned how her older sister was over and there was drinking going on and my girlfriend is only 18 and I am 19. I am a bit pissed off that she was drunk but also glad her friend brought her home before she was taken advantaged off. I ended up putting my girlfriend’s hair up, removing her skirt and her top, and carrying her to our bed so she can relax and wake up feeling good. She seemed to be really really drunk and saying a lot of stuffs to me. She has finally fallen asleep but I want to talk to her about this. I don’t want to spank her since it would just hurt her.
Discipline how?
Far as I am concerned the fun variety is always fair game if you're both up for it.
As for the more serious one? Mate. You looking disappointed and telling her it wasn't nice to see her like that and that you worried is discipline. As in, it constitutes negative reinforcement. As long as you talk about it that will have the effect of a disciplinary action. In the future, unless you're looking for a reason to get in character and spank her or alike, just commit to heart that making it clear how it affects you is more than enough for a serious approach.
Leave the stern 50s parent act for the bedroom, if that.
Most Helpful Opinions
That's when you need to hold "the talk" with her about it. I mean she's 18 and I've done a fairly similar thing when i was her age and then I realized "that's not good. i won't do that again".
However if she turns into an alcoholic, then you better leg it.
Maybe you should discipline yourself for having such bad taste in women. Ridiculous
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
11Opinion
Discipline? Do you think she is a child and you are her daddy?
I hope she has brains enough to tell you to fuck yourself and to prosecute you if you try disciplining her.You're not her dad you little shitbird. You don't need to discipline her, you just need to stop being an asshole. I'm sure you have been stupid drunk before or will be one day.
You are her boyfriend and not her father. She did not get raped and will just ha e a hangover. All you can do is tell her you were concerned about it and hope it never happens again.
Are you her dad? Step-dad? If not then keep your grubby paws off. You talk to her like an adult you don't throw tantrum like a child.
You can't go too easy on her and accept this. She needs discipline. I don't think spanking is appropriate as that is more a sexual thing.
How can you discipline your girlfriend? She's not your child.
One is uncertain what vexes Me more; Wondering how spanking would help? or Why it You have not brought in a intervention with family and friends?
Have You tried Intervention?The best thing you can do is deny her any of your attention. That would destroy her
Discipline? Really? Spanking? You need help. When you a sitting in jail for hitting her, don't complain. Sick fucker.
You can't "discipline" an adult. You can sit her down and have an adult conversation about it, though.
Discipline? You aren't her father ffs.
The only opinion from girls was selected the Most Helpful Opinion, but you can still contribute by sharing an opinion!
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!