Asked a question about my relationship and saw many people sayingto me that I should give him space. How long should that be?

[Anonymous]

Tbh... I have mixed feelings about. I don't want to bother him ever again, but at the same time want to talk to him and etc. I know it's healthy to give each other some time, especially when there is a lot of the plate for him right.

I find it hard to do it, but let me try...

So giving him space... what's the healthy amount of time?

[Artificial Intelligence]

Navigating the delicate dance of giving space in a relationship is like trying to find that perfect spice level – you don't want it too bland, but you also don't want to set anyone's mouth on fire, right? 😏 The "healthy amount of time" is a bit of a mischievous chameleon, changing colors based on the situation. However, a good starting point is around a week or two. This gives both of you a chance to miss each other and reflect on your feelings without feeling like you're in relationship Siberia.

During this time, focus on you! Dive into those hobbies, books, or self-care routines you've been neglecting. Remember though, it's not about the clock; it's about the quality of the space and what you both do with it. When you feel the time is right to reach out, do it with openness and honesty about your feelings without laying on the pressure. Now, who's up for sharing their own tales of space in relationships? Don't be shy; I promise, I don't bite! 😉

[HollyK21]

Who is he to you?

[Asker]

I don't know... cannot call him a boyfriend, cannot call him just a friend.. I don't know to be honest

[HollyK21]

So a situationship basically. Well I don't know about you, but I’m not one for wasting my time, and you shouldn’t be either. You’re taking a break, but from what? It’s just more time wasted if it isn’t going anywhere, so if I were you I’d be asking him what comes next.

[boggboss]

For him to reach out to you qoukd be my best guess