Am I right to give him space?

[Anonymous]

After work I asked my boyfriend if he wants to hang out

He said he has an appoinment with one friend and also wants to see his football team play

I said i have 30 minutes till my sister picks me up and that ill go at Mac

He said ok... Ill go with you

We went to Mac, i ordered us food [I payed for both] then we saw the soccer started, he became nervous he didn't want to miss it

I said ok babe, just grab food and go see your team play

We waited and then when the food was ready he took and gave me a kiss and said he needs to go

I was understanding, when he aaked you dont mind, right?

I said well you wanna see your team, right? Go

He kissed me and left

I felt a bit abandonded but then i calmed down since from the start i knew he met with friends

But im feeling that he thinks im mad... since he asked me that

I feel weird... am i being overthinking? how i let him know im not mad

[spartan55]

Your body language and attitude said you didn't like him leaving. You saying you weren't was your attempt to reconcile that I suppose.
Just curious, why did you make a point that you paid for his food? That was weird.

[Asker]

i dunno, just saying

[Asker]

well i dont think i gave off bad vibe
i knew he will leave and was ok with it
im confused why he asked if i dont mind
when in the first place it was actually my idea to tell him take food and go or you will missit
why then ask me if i dont mind if its me who suggested it in the first place

[spartan55]

You suggesting taking the food doesn't mean anything. You are seriously overthinking here. Maybe he said it because he felt guilty for some reason. What does it matter? These are the things you let go.

[Anonymous]

All fine but what's the point of writing "I payed for both" !

[Asker]

doesn't matter
i dont want him to think im mad
im not mad
why he thinks so

[Anonymous]

Classic over thinking.

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t act mad and forget about it.

[Asker]

im not mad
im confused and feel weird because i think he thinks im mad... im not
i didn't act like im mad
so he asking me if i dont mind didn't make sense
i didn't mind why ask me if i do
i dont get it
is he insecure of how i feel?

[Opinion Owner]

He might be, why not bring it up?

[Asker]

how?
"hey why you asked me if i mind you knew damn well i dont mind because actually it was me who told you to grab food and go see your team
why even after that you ask if i dont mind?"

like this?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes that’s perfect

[Asker]

psychologically speaking... he is afraid to make me mad? whats the core of his question