Hello everyone, i found this story in quora about a massage therapist girl, i am not sure if i can post a link here, I think is very interesting, the story is long, I only was able to fit where he humiliated her in front of everyone, long story short she started distancing, only calling him for money. His car broke, he went to see her and dropped some money because he supported her, only spent 30 minutes with her. Personally i think she got what she deserved it “I was shaking just to think about how bad I felt when I asked for a ride, it was only 15 minutes away and she was like, "i am sorry I am going to dinner with my friends!! I told her not to call me anymore, and after three days she said sorry, and said not to break up with her after 2 years of relationship, I was so mad that I started smoking again!! I had in mi mind payback will be on Tuesday but on Monday I just felt a rush and adrenaline pumping in my head that I said aloud now is payback!! i will get her back the same way she did to me, in the last text i I told her not to speak to me when she sees me and I just went for a massage at her job!! When I got there I guess she was not expecting me and jump to greet me and I ignored her and ask other girl for a message and my ex said “no, i will do it” but i ignored her, the other girl walked me to the room and started getting ready for the massage but she kept trying to talk to me and convinced the other girl to let her give me a massage, she came into the room and I asked her to leave, I pushed out but won't listen to me, I started to undress for the massage and kept ignoring her and finally she look and me grabbing her jacket and left, and the manager her self came to give me the massage i guess there was a conflict outside, after 45 minutes she came in again and asked if she can leave early, and she was looking for eye contact with me but i ignored her, this was perfect timing to end this, I even got all green lights while driving and got to her job fast!
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Would you go back with the guy whom you disrespected and then he payed you back but worse?
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Why would you want to go back with somebody that has come straight out and told you exactly who they are and what they're all about.
When there's 500 billion other guys out there that will show you exactly who they are through their love..
They show you who they are for a reason they show you who they are because they are trying to tell you they are not the guy for you you have to look at that warning hear that warning because you felt that. Warning so walk away from that. Warning find a new person
Are you talking about the guy or girl or both? Personally I think she was looking for that I wouldn't treat that way the man that is supporting me
Yeah I'm just saying in general.
We all have bad days sometimes.
And for me it is so hard for me to ask anybody for anything and I usually don't I will make it work I will find a way to make whatever work no matter what.
Sometimes it's very difficult by doing that way but I've just never ever been able to ask anybody for anything..
And in the same token people come to me all the time because they know that I will be there for them if I can do it or I make a way or I find a way to do it just to help them..
And nine out of 10 times I help them because I know that nobody would help me..
And that's my fault because I don't ask I've never been that person..
But I also mean it when people can see that I need something and they don't offer but the next day they'll be at my house asking me to help them do something
But I mean just in general
There are people that play that game and people that have to get eye
For eye. I look at it like this it's my problem I don't need to involve anybody else and that's just the way it has to work for me. But I mean both parties were wrong for doing what they were doing if you have a friend or you call somebody a friend you try to be there for them now I understand that people have lives too but too many people nowadays only think about themselves and that's kind of sad that they can't make a little bit of time they can't make a little bit of effort just to help that person out...
. Now I also do have friends that no matter what they ask me for favors they asked me if they need something they ask me to do things for them and it gets to a point where it's old because they're just taking advantage of me then and I just kind of let those go I don't bother with this it is what it is if they don't understand the reasoning behind why I do what I do then forget it I don't really care because they don't care
I'm the type of person I don't even need to know you and if I can see you struggling I'm going to ask if you're okay and if I can help you and that's because I'm right there in that moment