When someone wants a relationship with you, what's the first thing that goes through your mind?

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When someone first comes up to you and states that they want a relationship with you. What's the first thing that goes through your mind?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I ask myself if I can see myself with this person for the rest of my life , do we have a lot in common? Do we agree on a lot of the same things , Are they going to commit to me the same way I would commit them , Do they make me their top priority in their life. Do they remove selfishness for me the same way I do for them , Does she want to bring positive into my life , not negative. There are so many things that factor for me to even considering a commitment with a girl , Do I miss her when she is away , is she always on my mind , Do we share the same sexual compatibility. Main reason I don’t rush into committed relationships anymore. Most people are just infatuated with someone new without really looking at the big picture , Are we still going to want each other after the infatuation period runs dry? Is she really in it for the long haul or the short haul

Purpleronnie · Accepted Answer

I don’t think it could ever happen like that , and never has in my experience. Women have shown interest and dependent on me at the time I’m either receptive or not it’s never ever taken me by surprise. I don’t think my perception skills are better than anyone else’s so I think we would always get a sense of the direction things were headed before we got there and so would probably always understand how we would feel about it even if it wasn’t a binary response as either yes or no

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

It’s not only one thought. How long do I know this person for? Do I feel the same way? Do I see myself with him in the future? Do I say yes coz I’m bored? Or do I say no coz he’s not my type? Or coz I can’t commit? If I have more questions than answers, then I don’t wanna waste their time.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I am very particular so unless a guy meets my desires, I would not care if he wanted a relationship.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Aim: Sharing insights on first impressions when someone openly states wanting a relationship.

Oh, the thrill of someone laying their cards on the table! 🥳 When someone marches up and declares they want a relationship with you, it's like someone turning on a spotlight while you're casually sipping your coffee. First thought? "Whoa, that's bold!" Then the brain kicks into overdrive analyzing: Are they serious or just charmed by my irresistible persona? It's a mix of flattered, surprised, and a little detective work trying to figure out their angle. But hey, honesty right from the start can be pretty refreshing, don't you think? It's like skipping the small talk and diving right into the deep end. What's your take on this? Have you ever had someone come on strong like that? Let's dish! 💬😉

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

“ D**n,  How did I get myself in this? Is there a way out?

lightbulb27 · Answer

years back it was "What's wrong with them..."

at one point... I'd come up with a reason why it's not a good idea.

Eventually, I gave in, and I'm married and much better. I feel for the other females that I treated them so harshly, and my wife as well. I was a difficult nut...

mobiusforniner · Answer

I’ve never had anyone- friend or romantic- have the audacity to just randomly approach me stating they “want a relationship”. Normally relationships grow based on shared values or interests. IF this were to occur, I suspect their intentions to be inherently selfish because their desire to connect with me is not based on interests or values, but rather on my physical appearance or perceived social status. In which case I’d tell them to fuck off.

A_Bell · Answer

I'm married, let me work that into conversation. "Hey the weather is nice." "Yeah my husband was just saying that."

sukumamu · Answer

Am I single? If yes, do I know this person well? If no, slight panic and damage control. If yes, I ask myself if I'm attracted to them and if I think dating them would be fun. If no, slight panic and damage control. If yes, set up first date.

TM_KO_AF · Answer

Bruh Im Single
Realized I Was Toxic Ex

my cringey pick up line days are over
never did get her number

this one gurl, potential upgrade
fuck it got not time for rebounds

needa work on my self first
they like real men, and i wanna
make sure im guna be
one of em #singlefornow

DizzyDesii · Answer

If i can see a future with them. I won’t get in a relationship with someone unless i can already see myself loving them someday, having kids, marrying, sex, etc

SolitarySolace · Answer

Well first I’d asses whether they’re my type. If not I’d tell them I’m too busy or something. If they are, I’d still tell them I’m busy. I don’t do relationship or female friends. If they persist I’d try to find them someone else to go after.

Shiningtempest · Answer

@justabuddy First thing that goes through your mind is whether she display dealbreakers (e. g. having ex-boyfriends, does Only Fans, have tattoos, etc) when she want a relationship with me.

Tharithi · Answer

Why? What he’s trying to achieve? His intention?

NathanDavis · Answer

this usually happens when we're both into each other so I always think thought we were already in one... lol

Mariena_Anne92 · Answer

They just messing with my head of just wanna sleep with me. I can’t believe people or relationships anymore. Had enough

HawkPerception · Answer

I judge their physical attraction and my impression of their personality. Then I decided based on that if I'm good with dating them

thatshydork · Answer

The first thing that I think is this: ”aww that’s so cute and makes me feel so happy. Why?”

Nikki1989 · Answer

If it is man, I would assume he is only after one thing. With a woman, it would require a lot more thought.

Valdemort · Answer

Are you for real? And wonder about that throughout the entire relationship.

mandyfire98 · Answer

Are thry just randomly approaching me asking for this?

JacobJordan · Answer

Now that i am married. I'm taken can't help you there. Before I was married why

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Someone in my house talking about something of which I have no interest and trying to get me to do things I don't want to do... basically sucking my soul dry.

Booklover_90 · Answer

We’d have to date before I know I’d like a relationship with him.

Yannae · Answer

If I feel the same way. It's usually too soon when they come forth.

Pohjolan · Answer

So far its either been gay men or a prank. So I'd either think about about how to politely reject him or if she is serious?

grega239 · Answer

I would try to figure out what the punchline of the joke could be.

Mediterraneansoul · Answer

If I find her attractive, I question the motives  If i don't I can see the motives

Anonymous · Answer

'What the hell is wrong with you' is probably the best place to start

ElaN351 · Answer

Just the first meeting? Hmmm… I would ask why?

rachel776 · Answer

they want to fuck me

Whitey_Johnson · Answer

What's she gonna look like nekkid? jbh

laly520 · Answer

thinking if they r serious or not

Dongie · Answer

How much is this going to cost me.

OtterMan68 · Answer

It's been so long! How do I react?

swordbreaker · Answer

I'll probably wonder why klmdsf

Anonymous · Answer

I wonder what her pussy looks like. 🤔

mono_gram · Answer

Why?

Malwi93 · Answer

feel like running

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

"How tight is her pussy?"

whistlingwh0res · Answer

Is he trying to steal something?

Clyde_123 · Answer

Why me?

Koneko911 · Answer

Why?

JayBones · Answer

Run!

he-takes-a-part · Answer

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