What is the most important thing to you when deciding you want to be in relationship with someone?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

Two things I look for are active positive traits and non existent negative traits. Some bad traits are forgivable because all people have imperfections but there are traits I will never accept in a guy, such as being excessively vain and egocentric, not having a sense of accountability, not willing to correct errors, using me to beef up their self confidence and acting like I'm their personal support worker, not giving me fair and due consideration, not showing positive attention or disclosing important thoughts, not expressing their views in a compliant and gentle way, not accepting my natural limitations as a person or having a standard incompatible with why personal traits.

[Kiwedin]

It's definitely changed over the years. When I was younger, I relied solely on emotion, physical attraction, and compatibility. I ignored red flags because of my feelings for them, but I'd say that all changed at 25. Probably because my brain was finally fully developed lmao.

in my opinion, the most important thing to look for is emotional intelligence. As well as the ability/desire to grow as a person and improve themselves and the relationship. As much as I want to be a romantic and say love overcomes everything, it doesn't. If he thinks therapy is bullshit run in the opposite direction.

[Heolurt]

They have to see past my face and into my heart, cheesy as that sounds, there isn't a female in existence that could ever see past my face so, I stay single and don't really care about relationships anymore.

[BJP21]

If they are Mentally stable. Nothing worse than someone who turns Verbally, Mentally or Emotionally Abusive with no filter.

[Sorrento-Sun]

If he is open and honest about himself, his life and his feelings.

I couldn't deal with a guy who was emotionally unavailable and a closed book sirt of guy.

It's causes too much anxiety and frustration. I need to know where i stand in his life. You never know where you stand with people who are closed book type of people. It causes too much instability within the relationship

[sheenagwapa]

i can't be with someone right now because i'm under someone's control but i wish he would let me go because i think he is a shitty human beinh. i eish he would give me the source of income i'm asking and just let me go

[TacosRAwesome]

- mutual attraction ie I want to have sex with them and they want to have sex with me

- compatible lifestyles

- compatible love expressions

- mutual respect

[Luopio27]

That you are in it for the right ressons snd never for ultiripr motives.

[Anonymous]

Her consistency. Life isn't always easy you can't control what life throws at you. But you can control how you react to it.

[Anonymous]

For women it is height, I know some might fight me on that opinion but after what I've seen and what I've dealt with, I stand by that wholeheartedly.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Are they a born again Christian and love God and Jesus with all their heart.

[Randalama]

Does she smell funky? If it's a garlic problem fine. Yeast is another matter.

[misogynistic_pig]

Have a big ass and be a virgin.

[LiamJHayden]

We enjoy being together.

[Shamalien]

Can I trust them?

[Jamie05rhs]

Personality.

[TheMoreMiffed]

Just money

[shortster]

If they want kids.

[Anonymous]

Free time 😊