Would you say you’re easy to win over but hard to keep OR vice versa OR something else (explain)?

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I start off simple. I’m pretty easy to get but hard to keep/satisfy. I’m pretty routine and when things start to change, I try to get it back to the way things were, otherwise, I’m ready to bounce. Like I start to feel trapped. Then i check out mentally/emotionally but rarely physically. At certain points in the relationship, I just begin self sabotaging as my way of escaping. Its just a bad habit, especially since I struggle with letting go and leaving on my own. I rather be released even if it makes me look like the sucker. In the end, it was all apart of the plan… But I hate wasting my time (and in some way theirs as well) but at the same time it makes me feel less guilty and less of the villain if i’m released versus just voluntarily leaving. I know its some sort of commitment issue but is what it is.   #FeelFreeToList

sawno · Accepted Answer

For the right girl I was easy to get and easy to keep. She had no issues in getting me other than perhaps that one time I was unsure and didn't want to hurt her by being on the fence.

And I'd still say I am easy to get and easy to keep as long as you are my soul mate. You will naturally do the right things and I will naturally love you for who you are and want to stay with you. I am super loyal. However, if you aren't the right girl for me its probably impossible to get me. There isn't this thing you can do, there isn't this one trick to win me over. If you aren't truly compatible with me I don't think you'd ever be able to figure it out, its to deep on a personality level for someone to fake or simply change.

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

Easy to get, hard to keep. My wife is a unicorn. With many of today's modern, promiscuous, sleep around, post a million pics for social media, drunken girls nights, hot Instagram pictures, Onlyfans porn, every 25 year old girl has slept with 10-25 men, career is more important than a family I don't think there are more then 1,000 women in the entire country that I'd stay with long term. I landed my wife about a decade ago, thank goodness I don't have to fool with this sleazy, wasteland of "dating" now.

electromagnetic · Accepted Answer

I think it depends on the person themselves. It can go either way tbh. Some people would avoid the experience of intimacy with others because of what has happened to them. While others will desire it more because it’s something they’ve know from a younger age.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

I’m easy to get if I like you a lot. It doesn’t take much effort. But to keep me? Stay how you are when we first got together then I’ll be yours for a long time. I’ll match you.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I am hard to get… I am not trying to be. I just am.

GuyAnswersGirls123 · Answer

I'm very easy. All we have to do is communicate regularly and very openly and maturely which I'm always down to do. That'll tend to make me connected for the initial attraction (to get) and stay connected (to keep).

NathanDavis · Answer

I'm very easy to get and also to keep... just be fucking amazeballs and I'm all yours... lol

7Phoenix7 · Answer

Honestly, I'd say hard to get and easy to keep. So many guys tried so hard lol but I pick the guy that I know will be completely compatible and that I can see myself with for a very long time. Once I can see that, I'm his lol.

We're the opposite, haha

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I'm easy to get, and easy to please and keep, but because most of my life I haven't been in a relationship for most of my life, so while I'm pretty easy to please and keep, sometimes I do feel a bit of boredom once I've gotten to a comfortable point.. But that's some else I believe..

magiusX26 · Answer

due to my baggage, impossible to get so keeping is not even an option. sure a someone for ne would be nice (in theory) but would not work out for long and just cause more baggage and issues for both parties. so in a short generalized version i refuse to entertain even any form of attempting to date just to not cause more trauma on the world of relationships as a whole. let my issues stay and hopefully end with me.

RHK36 · Answer

I fall into love as quickly as falling out. I tell people upfront I trust everyone new about 75%. It's up to them to lose it or earn it. When I see that the other person isn't putting in the same effort as me I'm already losing feelings. Once it reaches a low threshold, I'm cutting the cord. I have no problems ending shit if it ain't it. No point in dragging it out when I can see where it's headed.

Extraterrestrial1999 · Answer

I'm hard to win over, and hard to keep. I have a lot of patience, but I just feel like there's not a lot of sincere people, people just being selfish, having hidden intentions, you get it. Hard to keep, because I don't take any bs, and I just have expectations, from myself, and others

IslaTheWitch · Answer

and how can I even evaluate it? :D I definitely need my time... so some can understand it being hard to win... but if we are already there... I don't need any special treatment or something... :D

Jamie05rhs · Answer

It's statistically very difficult for a woman to get me interested in marrying her. But if she catches my attention, I'm hooked pretty easily. But then comes the hard part, because just because I INTEND to marry her, I won't actually necessarily pull the trigger. If I sense something is off, I will jump ship (even if my own heart gets broken in the process).

LiamJHayden · Answer

Relatively easy to get but near impossible to satisfy long term.

SunnyRS · Answer

I am the opposite of you then.
I don't get into the relationships easily cause they require efforts to work and I prefer my easy going way.
But if I get into a relationship I am easy to satisfy in it cause I don't want to break things up, I will put in efforts to make it work (even though it is a hassle) if she puts in some efforts as well.

DreamLife7 · Answer

Desi 🤣 you are definitely a hopeless romantic. You should really write a book about your love life. I think it would actually be really good.

I'm not easily won over. The man has to treat me how my uncles and grandfather treated my aunts and grandmother. That's the standard for me. When I was younger and didn't know better yes I was easily won over by stuff I find silly now.

Lynx122 · Answer

I think I'm hard to get but easy to satisfy once we're together.

I just need a mental connection and understanding that's pretty rare to find. But if I find someone that I connect with I don't need much to be happy :)

Drew-1990 · Answer

I would say I'm easy to get and easy to please but people assume I'm hard to get because of how quiet I start out as. People think I'm not interested when real I'm just shy and never know what to say at the beginning.

bobalife · Answer

It’s already hard to get my attention or stand out generally, I am hard to get who I wanna go on a date with, decide to be with, and to be keep in a relationship.

RebelinSteel · Answer

I’m hard to get I guess, I’m really fussy who I get into a relationship with.  I am relatively hard to keep as well, mainly due to work, travel overseas etc.

Pink2000 · Answer

Very hard to get. Nothing impresses me. I’m not easy to please either. I’m picky. Probably why I’m single now.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I am a lot of work and I know it all too well.

strateguy632 · Answer

easy to win over but hard to keep , they get bored usualy a month.

didichi · Answer

I’ll accept people because I’m nice but I’ll leave if you piss me off.

Wiredone · Answer

I'm hard to get because I don't trust easily. My trust has to be earned, it's not given. Once you've earned my trust, I'll have your back until you deceive me.

Sameone · Answer

Easy to get and easy to keep/satisfy/please  The only way to lose me is Lie to me or cheating me

Likes2drive · Answer

I’m probably easy to get and keep, I’m in it for the long haul when I get into a serious relationship

Shark_61695 · Answer

I'd guess I'm hard to get but easy to keep... I'd like a relationship but can only see myself as part of an old couple.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Right now, hard to get and difficult to keep, even though keeping part just needs some understanding.  But usually people with fewer options are easy to get and keep

MatureSexyClassy · Answer

I'm 57 so I know what I want and what I expect in a healthy relationship.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I'm easy to win over by themselves, but I'm not easy to convince myself to feel that way :p

Squatting_Slav · Answer

Easy to win and to keep. The only catch is, don't f*ck it up lol.

Unit1 · Answer

I'll say I am a natural opposite sex repellent and I have no idea why.

Twalli · Answer

If you've put in the effort to get me, you don't have to do much to keep me.

blkgold33 · Answer

Hard to get but easy to please

Texasgal95 · Answer

I feel like I’m both honestly

loveslongnails · Answer

I'm easy... but expensive! LOL

LavLavLuv · Answer

Hard to get, easy to keep

Amiapowerlessman · Answer

Once I get fed that’s it lmfao you got me.

nawtee_me · Answer

I am always easy

dragoblack · Answer

Hard to win over, but easy to keep

appleadayisgood · Answer

i never dated so its hard to say.

moneymagnet24 · Answer

I laugh in silence when she say i won you 😂😂

whistlingwh0res · Answer

Yeah u do drug

Anonymous · Answer

I don't play games.

RavVid · Answer

I'm easy.

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