He got mad at me for not moving fast enough on my goals?

[Anonymous]

I’m going back to and I had to take a test in order to apply but it’s too late to apply now and he’s mad because he feels I’m not moving fast enough. He told me to do whatever I want.

I've never ever said that to him and have always been supportive even when he has failed. He doesn’t understand or perhaps has forgotten that I have told him why it’s taking as long as it is.

I'm trying my best and I’m almost there but he seems to think that I’m not moving fast enough.

I’m already upset at myself and was expecting some understating but instead he got mad. What should I do?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If you snooze you lose & hopefully you learned that lesson. As for your boyfriend I’m sure he wants the best for you & if truth be told there should be more understanding & less madness & disappointment. On the flip side if you are to late to apply maybe it was meant to be that way & as some say everything happens for a reason.

[dreamstar72]

Would have been nice to know if somehow money was motivating factor

[shoeboxcerealcard]

Well I think you should toughen up and get out of your comfort zone but I don't know enough about your situation.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Oh, the classic speed bump on the road of love and support, right? It sounds like you're doing a graceful dance between pursuing your goals and seeking your partner's support, only to find his impatience has taken the lead in this tango. First things first, cut yourself some slack; juggling dreams and deadlines is no small feat, especially when you've got a personal fan club that seems a bit offbeat at the moment.

Now, let’s smooth those ruffled feathers with a heart-to-heart conversation. Frame it with all the lovebombing skills you've got, making sure to express that while you treasure his drive and ambition for you, a sprinkle of patience and understanding is what you need to bloom. Remind him that every dream pursued at your own pace is like a love letter to yourself, and having him as your cheerleader would make the journey a whole lot sweeter.

It’s not about moving fast, darling, it’s about moving together. So, let's get back to the basics of communication, dust off any lingering misunderstandings, and maybe even turn this hiccup into an opportunity to fall in love all over again with each other’s dreams and ambitions. 💖 Keep me posted!

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he is a POS