Why does society shun single women?

[cth2188]

Not every woman wants a husband, kids, or marriage- I find I'm happier single than tied to someone plus I don't want to share my time, energy, or anything with anyone else. I don't need relationships to be happy or look for validation through another human being.

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Because society says the only way for you to be happy is you're married and have kids- I disagree- happiness is something you obtain on your own.

[StarWarGirl]

Society is full of weak people so the strong person do prick their eyes as it questions their incompetence it makes them feel as if their weakness is shining before them. So that makes them feel uneasy and uncomfortable seeing the strong person before them. Also everyone wants to feel as if they are best they are at top so when they see there are real strong people before them they could not digest it because they are not able to compare themselves with them. For example you would see people would be telling like I'm so lucky that my husband is so rich he gives me that etc. I'm so proud of him. Or my wife is so beautiful etc. But when they see a single women who doesn't need anyone for herself they would get uneasy that how she doesn't need a man. How she could stand equal to all of us male. Why she doesn't need to be dependent on anyone. How she is single yet so happy and satisfied as I could never. But these are all inside their heads they won't say it out loud but they would say things like "oh you are in dream world no can live happy without man and family" "society is dangerous for single women" but actually it's all opposite. A female can be more happier without a man more safe without them. As most of danger is caused by males only. For family their is option of adoption.

No body actually cares for anyone. Just they are weaks. That's only reason.

[cth2188]

I agree - it's sad how people want to control people's lives and what they do

[cth2188]

People should mind their own business and let people live how they want

[KrakenAttackin]

@cth2188. That's not how society works.

[cth2188]

Well society should mind their own business @ Kraken Attackin you don't control what people does no one does

[cth2188]

@KrakenAttackin

[cth2188]

Not even society- not everyone follows societal rules

[Xia1994]

not everyone is the same and we don’t all have the same life nor the same life experience therefore whoever is going around shaming people for wanting to be single or even for wanting to be in relationships is too invested in other peoples lives and needs to divert that same energy into their own lives ☺️

[Xia1994]

Oh they do it because of projection or because they think they have the power to control other people.

[cth2188]

Yes agreed

[HighValue]

It is not that they are single. It is because they claim they don't want someone, then get upset and blame men when nobody of good quality wants her when she is in her 30s (often with a bad past during her 20s) and older after she wasted her good years. THAT is the reason.

If women in their 30s, 40s, etc. would leave men alone that don't want them and stop harassing men, they wouldn't care.

[madgoat]

The vast majority of people find happiness in building families, spouse, children and society reflects this.

If it's truly not for you and you're still saying the same in the decades to come, all is well.

But in general, we need more babies, not less for our societies to continue to prosper.

[cth2188]

Why do we need more babies? More slaves? Who would have children in this wicked world and inflation? People can barely take care of themselves less more a baby / child seems selfish

[cth2188]

A child isn't cheap and expensive and women's bodies go through labor - so I disagree when it comes to women's reproductive rights that's a choice for women not men

[robhazelnut]

Most humans are presently compulsive enough to suffer without having a partner. Even then, many suffer while having one. Suffering is rooted in treating the past or future as the present, what doesn't exist as what does.

[cth2188]

Some humans can function without another human being- I think it's selfish to force your way into someone's life and expect them to do something they don't want to do

[robhazelnut]

Well, every human being needed two parents in order to conceive their body. The closest example of those who had no human contact since birth which I so far found was of the 1 year old boy who had been adopted by feral cats. theweek.com/.../6-cases-children-being-raised-by-animals

[robhazelnut]

Expecting others to do anything is a literally vital aspect of young children and infants. Adults who do so employ force because they can and must in order for it to have a chance of working.

[cth2188]

No, most of you need a companion. Not everyone wants to be tied to a partner, get married, or have a family- I'm content single and surrounded by friends and family and other women

[cth2188]

There's no must that relationships validate anyone's happiness especially...

[cth2188]

In these relationships because you're lonely and need a partner or whatever

[cth2188]

Just say you need a partner to be satisfied while most are satisfied amongst friends , family, and pets

[robhazelnut]

I was responding to you saying, "without another human being".

[robhazelnut]

🙂👍

[Billlewis]

Because they're so busy shaming single guys... lol

[cth2188]

I think desperate and insecure women do this who need a man - confident woman aren't pressed about being single

[JacobJordan]

80 years is a long time to be single come back when you are 65 and let us know how it is going

[KrakenAttackin]

Because permanently single women are seen as failures to their true purpose.

[cth2188]

Then men have the option to have children and marriage with eagerly single women who support that and leave single and childless women alone - men can also travel abroad to find what they're after

[cth2188]

Noone is obligated to have children, get married, or deal with men relationship wise

[KrakenAttackin]

@cth2188. You asked, I answered.

[TonyMetal___86]

It's your choice, no one is going to tell you anything, of you're happy like that than so be it!

[CubaPirate]

I doesn't where I live

[cth2188]

It's not about where you live it's a societal problem