Has Feminism DESTROYED relationships?

[SolitarySolace]

Feminism has DESTROYED relationships - https://youtu.be/cj2INIq5fHQ?si=VQtL1x9Qnhlu6Kjq

[sawno]

Yes but not universally. Not every girl subscribes to the ideology and the majority of girls seems to just call themselves feminist because they want equality so those don't count either.

Girls who still want to fulfill the role the guy is looking for in a partner should make for great relationships. And a lot of girls like being independent and empowered so they have something to fall back on if needed while simultaneously preferring if the guy keeps her secure and provided for so she can focus on family and social life.

Likewise, not all guys seek a partner who can raise children, they are either not interested in children or they are fine with daycare (I am not fine with daycare myself). So to those guys it doesn't matter if she is a completely career driven woman because to them thats an asset and a likeminded individual.

[DextroShade]

It absolutely has. If you are a man you would be a total fucking moron to get in a serious relationship with a woman who identifies as a feminist. Even most of the ones who don't call identify as feminists will still act like it to an extent.

[DarkWinterNights]

It’s the effects of feminism, not just feminists. Look at Steven Crowder getting absolutely wrecked in his divorce and criticizing men opting out of marriage. Probably one of the worst public divorces we’ve seen in awhile.

[DarkWinterNights]

After criticizing men*

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to smooth out the wrinkles in relationship discussions, let's dive in! 😉 Feminism, like any movement, has its complex impact on society, including the domain of love and relationships. Rather than saying it's "destroyed" relationships, I'd lean more towards it's evolved them. Relationships are now more about partnership and mutual respect. Yes, it challenges traditional roles, and sure, that can be tricky to navigate for some. But hey, it's also opened up a world of possibilities where connections can be more balanced, communicative, and, dare I say, enriching. Think of it as upgrading to a more advanced level in the game of love where everyone gets a fair shot. Now, isn't that a level we all want to play on? Love, after all, should be about lifting each other up. 🚀💕

[gorydetails]

fuck off brad

[loveslongnails]

Hmm, sounds like men complaining about women who either don't need them, want them or want to put up with their bullshit. Today's feminism is a long throw from what it started out to be, and as most good ideas go, it got hijacked by radicalism and extremist, misandrist women. That's not what it was all about.

Every time I hear one these guys blame OnlyFans for ruining something - anything about sex, I laugh out loud wondering how many times they each beat off to porn as adults or their daddies' magazines when they were kids. No one forces a guy to join OF.

[SolitarySolace]

I think you just don't understand where these types of men are coming from and refuse to listen to them for fear of becoming like them. 🤷🏻‍♂️ instead you assume things about these men and antagonize them, demonize them and ridicule them. Doesn't that make you a bad person?

[loveslongnails]

You're quite the fan of hyperbole, aren't you? The only things I can "assume" about them are based on their dialogue for the few short minutes on the video. Using that as my data, I made the statement above. Did I call them demons? No. Did I attack or antagonize them? No, obviously not, because I'm not conversing with them. I'm not doing ANY of the things you accuse me of, I'm making an observation BASED on their statements. That's what they sound like to me.

For fear of becoming like them? LMAO. Now that's funny. And what "type" of men are they exactly? Tell us all what their "type" is.

[SolitarySolace]

Victimized men. Apparently men can't be victims and only women can. That's a major double standard.

[loveslongnails]

LOL You think these guys are victims? These guys are whiners. Next please.

[SolitarySolace]

I stand corrected men can't be victims

[SolitarySolace]

Why do you hate men?

[SolitarySolace]

How does it feel knowing that as a man you're nothing but a disposable afterthought compared to women?

[loveslongnails]

I don't hate men, you just think I do. I dislike whiners. I dislike men who have had a few bad experiences with women and tell all other men that every woman they will meet will bring them the same bad experiences. It's bullshit. If the juice isn't WORTH the squeeze to you, don't buy the fruit. Go do whatever you want but stop the fuck complaining about your own lack of success and blaming it on "all women nowadays".

[SolitarySolace]

You're right. I should stop telling other men that the women they meet will bring them bad experiences. Should just let them experience it first on their own then tell them not to touch the hot stove again after the fact 🤷🏻‍♂️

[SolitarySolace]

And you're right whining men don't deserve sympathy. Only whining women do. Issue's men deal with when it comes to women are pointless because they're men. Only the issues women deal with with men have any merit. You're so right.

[SolitarySolace]

Men should just all be dead inside snd give women everything especially the bad women they deserve it all

[SolitarySolace]

I mean men are just disposable afterthoughts after all

[SolitarySolace]

And again you're right it's just my lack of success with women I just oh so want a woman to treat me like shit but they don't because I hate them boo hoo woe is me what should I do

[loveslongnails]

I don't know what your problem is specifically, but it sounds like "projection". I've NEVER said any of these things, like "only women deserve sympathy", or "men's issues are pointless", only YOU keep trying to draw those conclusions from my commentary on a single video and the men in it.

And seriously, what the HELL is this? : " I should stop telling other men that the women they meet will bring them bad experiences." I don't even know what that is! LOL - "hey guys, stop dating women! They're like hot stoves and you may get burned"!! Look dude, you want to be alone, be alone. You want men to get more recognition for the issues they deal with, go shout it out, but don't put YOUR words in my mouth or project YOUR feelings and insecurities as if MY words imply them.

[SolitarySolace]

You know what I suddenly don't care what happens to other men. Other men are dipshit's anyway

[SolitarySolace]

You don't know what my problem is because you refuse to acknowledge it instead you say I'm whining 🤣 snd ridicule me as if I have no reason to feel anything

[SolitarySolace]

Thank you for teaching me that men are just as shitty as women

[loveslongnails]

And so you do it again... " ridicule me as if I have no reason to feel anything". Did I say "don't feel anything"? No.

[SolitarySolace]

You've been implying it throughout our conservation. What the fuck do you expect if me

[SolitarySolace]

You want me to be a soulless asshole like you?

[loveslongnails]

I didn't teach you anything, but one might stumble upon the idea that there are just as MANY shitty men as there are shitty women in the world. Hmm. What a concept.

[Dongie]

Many before they got started. Dodge those bullets fellows.

[RavVid]

It is women that have done this, women who are feminists true. Not all women but a large enough portion that make impossible to trust.

[CheeseMonster]

If feminism destroyed a relationship, then it was not a very good relationship.

[OtterMan68]

no, it has not. In the past women were often stuck in marriages, but that's changed

[SolitarySolace]

You're right, it has changed. And now women are becoming unnecessarily wealthy while men are becoming poor homeless bums

[msc545]

Pretty much so, yes, at least for male-female relationships.

[BCRanger10]

It has ruined a lot of things.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Nope.