Boyfriend was drunk and insulted my disabled child?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend got drunk with his friends and one mentioned a school and he said that would be good for your kid, she speaks cursive right? She’s nonverbal and has some words. I was super hurt by this. He ended up going over to their place to sleep over (because they had more drinks, he’s an alcoholic) and he didn’t even want to try to make up for the bad night. Just before all this he yelled at me and when they went to the store he was in his room and didn’t want to help me make food. (I drove to his place and brought food). He came out when they came back. I was super close to leaving because he clearly loves drinking more than me. Before he left with them I told him that he hurt me and he said cursive means to swear, that he wasn’t talking about her disability. This should be the last straw right?

[teamvic]

In not saying to lever him but I will say people tend to tell you what the really mean when they're drunk

It's like it takes away their filter

Do as you please with that information

[teamvic]

LEAVE***

[Asker]

After all the things that have happened him insulting my baby literally broke me.

[LunarEclipse433]

Drunk is no excuse. His real self showing through

[Asker]

Every time he drinks we argue. I told him previously not to have me over if he’s drinking and he doesn’t care. He was unemployed so I would buy him food and pay for gas and gave him cash, now he’s working and I still buy food and medicine for his pets. He sprayed water in my face on one occasion (I did try to force him so I get it) on another he destroyed his house and wanted to drive with me to the same friends house and I had to cry and scream for him to turn back. He gets jealous easily and said he saw a handprint on me but that’s impossible. He also doesn’t want me talking or going out with male friends or coworkers. It’s been a lot and what hurts is his lack of care

[LunarEclipse433]

Leave before you get hurt

[ChicoFromThe305]

Oof.