in a family dinner the topic of cheating went on the table and my brother said something misogynistic like men can have multiple girls and its not cheating if the man is rich and he tells honesty to the girls that he is not belong to anyone, and my boyfriend agreed and I got angry as a feminist and told them that i would castrate the guy if he would cheat on me.
My boyfriend then responded that if I castrate a man, I better finish the job and kill him , because if a girl would do it to him , he will kill her the first moment he back on his feets. My father looked at him and laughed, and when i said how can you laugh at this he threatened me. And then my father said first of all he didn't threatened you, we only talking what if…the second- I agree with him , I would kill the girl also, and even if he killed you my daughter, probably I could understand him. i will revenge your death after but i will understand why he killed you.
i got angry and said that its barbaric to even think so,
and then my brother responded listen you are a girl so you can't understand but for us, when someone take our masculinity we are dead already, so it better for him to kill us and not let us live- because revenge will come for sure.
