Can you love someone so much it makes you sad?

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pinkchampagne97 Follow
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Yup.. I did.. but it made me sad not the fact that I loved the person so much, but the fact that I was feeling it that he doesn’t reciprocate it.. the part when you love someone so much and you don’t feel like this is making sense to him or that he cares or that he does the same, makes it sad 😔 my last relationship was like that, he gave me a lot of love and then I started giving him love and this was the moment I felt like I was the one feeling the love and his part was only fake or not enough.. then it became sad and lonely

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It’s not love if it makes you sad. Love yourself enough to walk away. You deserve love and happiness. Ask yourself if you’re dating an onion or a person… hugs

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- Pinay_ako
  
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  Thanks for the MHO
  
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deus_ex_sisyphus Follow
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I dont think love alone can bring sadness. Rather it just amplifies the emotion when accompanied with an event like breakup/divorce, jealously, death, etc.

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Means you’re loving someone more then you love yourself !

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IslaTheWitch Follow
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you can, but it's not the best way to love someone

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Nikki1989 Follow
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How is that possible. Love brings you up, not down.

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In the truest sense, no.
In the sense of infatuation and general attraction, I suppose so, but you ought not to.

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blueonblack22 Follow
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Sad if they are in trouble/hurt or if you realize you can’t be together due to something out of both your control.
But being sad they might not love you as much as you love them is a different story. Not a good one.

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molonski2 Follow
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That's not love , that's obsession and that is extremely unhealthy indeed..

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kuzgunsteele Follow
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Loving someone so much that it upsets you is generally not a healthy relationship dynamic. True love is about making each other happy and supporting each other. If someone makes you sad, it may indicate that love is not healthy.

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dustybiker2 Follow
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It's the reason losing love hurts just as much. It's the flip side.

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abc3643 Follow
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You bet... after they dump you!
I am still bummed and it's been over 32 years now.

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- handsomelad70
  
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  After THIRTY-TWO YEARS? I assume you've had other relationships since she got rid of you, but what was so special about her? Did she have a great body?
  
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- abc3643
  
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  @handsomelad70 If you are genuinely 70, I am rather surprised by this: "Did she have a great body?"
  
  She was very attractive, yes, but I loved her and wanted to marry her and, if I was going to have kids, I wanted it with her. I never felt that way about any other woman. I did move on, but the two women I dated years later were both older than me and had hysterectomies; I did not want children after her. Indeed, I should not have gotten married and should have remained single. Not exactly like "Miss Haversham" from "Great Expectations", but... it would have been best for me to have remained single and I will leave it at that.
  
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- abc3643
  
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  You are not 70. The way you speak is not like an adult male north of 50.
  
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- handsomelad70
  
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  I understand (I think;maybe I don't), abc3643. Still, that's over HALF your life, because I believe you're 62. Yes, I'm 70;I'm just far more boyish (looks and outlook on life) than the average 70-year-old man.
  
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- abc3643
  
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  @handsomelad70 I am 61.
  
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- handsomelad70
  
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  Sorry I got your age wrong, abc3643, but I was born in Grace Hospital in Windsor, Ont., Can., one mile SOUTH of Detroit, Mich., July 6,1953, which if my math is correct, makes me three months and one week shy of my 71st birthday.
  
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Nerdvana Follow
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No, a healthy relationship should make you feel better about yourself. You may have issues you need to deal with before starting a relationship.

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Jay-_- Follow
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If you can't have them yes, I don't why you would be sad if you have them as a S. O that's weird 😂 should be the opposite.

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jshm2 Follow
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No. That's called "infatuation" and it's unhealthy

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- EmyyWolf
  
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  How do you get rid of it
  
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Yes you can, I still get sad thinking about a girl from past and wish she was here...

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JayBones2469 Follow
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No. I am a sociopath. I don't feel sad and if I do I'm faking it

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fuddly Follow
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Maybe

If you think the love is doomed

Like in the movie Betty Blue

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Anonymous
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Absolutely! I once fell in love with someone who didn't love me back (that too for 9 long years)... And I went into major chronic depression because of that!

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exitseven Follow
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Yes, when you love somebody and you know that it will never happen.

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whistlingwh0res Follow
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yeah Melania trump is so much in love with Donald trum and it makes me so sad..

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Anonymous
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Yes, especially when they leave and / or divorce you.

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LiamJHayden Follow
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The involuntary loss can, like when my mom died and when my dad died.

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Billlewis Follow
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Yes. I've done it.

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NathanDavis Follow
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that sounds toxic AF

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only if its toxic or not reciprocated

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bowenw Follow
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Yes if you cannot be with them.

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Unit1 Follow
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I can't recall that ever happening to me.

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ALLURING24 Follow
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Yes, if they don’t love you back.

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Anonymous
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Yes. Why do u love them by the way?

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Guanfei Follow
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Yep, I can. I wish I couldn't but I can.

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OddBeMe Follow
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If you’re stupid.

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BLP11520 Follow
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I did that once, but I got over it😊

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Anonymous
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Maybe if they're dead and you miss them

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Jamie05rhs Follow
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Yes.

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DreamLife7 Follow
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No get therapy

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cbaum621 Follow
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Yes absolutely

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Fbhuseyin25 Follow
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Yes🥺😢

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dudeinohio Follow
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Sure

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