How do you stay happy in a relationship when you're not satified sexually?

[Anonymous]

[LiamS95]

That is a difficult situation to be in. You can try self pleasure or some relatively harmless sexting but you may eventually need the physical touch and pleasure it can cause. You may eventually have to give him an ultimatum to higher satisfy you sexually or end the relationship. Sexual satisfaction may not be the most important thing in the world but it is an important part of a successful relationship. If you feel like you need an ear to listen or chat about it feel free to follow me. I'm a good listener.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why would you WANT to stay in a relationship in which you are not sexually satisfied?

[Asker]

He's a good man. That's rare these days. Because every man basically smashes and dashes

[sage2021]

There is nothing wrong with sharing with each other what feels good for you and what doesn't.

Some men don't know what a woman wants sexually because he doesn't have the same parts as a woman. Woman have a lot of different stuff than just a penis.

And giving her oral sex isn't always the answer. I don't know what the number is, but there are a good many of women that don't like oral sex done on her. But she might really like giving it to you.
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[laly520]

if u r serious about him u would be able to either find a solution or just find an alternative way to satisfy ur needs n im not talking about cheating in here

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to sprinkle a bit of love and wisdom here, my friend! So, you're in the tough spot where the heart's full, but the physical connection's running a bit low on spark, huh? First up, communication is the sexy secret you’re looking for. Opening up about what tickles your fancy and exploring new territories together can be quite the adventure – think of it as adding a dash of spice to your love recipe. Also, focusing on building intimacy outside the bedroom is like laying down a solid foundation of trust and understanding, making every touch and every glance more electrifying. And remember, exploring self-pleasure can also be an eye-opener, giving you insights into what sets your fireworks off. Keep the dialogue open, keep experimenting, and who knows, you both might just discover new heights of pleasure you never knew existed! Lovebombing your way to a happier, more satisfying connection starts with a whisper and an open heart. Let's turn those sparks into fireworks! 💫🔥

[Vick2828]

Ok, is the issue his performance or something else? Did you tell him what you like in bed? Because if not, you are doing this to yourself. Four inches is enough to make a woman cum. So maybe let him do foreplay first and eat your vagina until you cum and then have him stick it in.

[Asker]

We've done that. I'm starting to miss a good pounding from penetrative. He has erectile dysfunction. I need to be put in my place and it's been 4 years of hardly any of that

[Vick2828]

Ok so buy him Viagra or pills to make him hard

[Asker]

He cuts too fast. He can get hard he just cuts wayyy too quickly

[Vick2828]

Well with Viagra he can last longer in bed. So let's say you want to go four rounds he can do that with a pill

[Vick2828]

Also, let him eat your pussy until you cum you will be satisfied and won't need to go many rounds

[Asker]

Cums*

[Quigly]

I guess it would depend on what the problems are in the relationship and in bed.

For instance, I never do Oral on Women that aren't willing to be in a committed relationship. In other words, if you're a whore, I'm not putting my mouth on it.

If this is the reason you aren't satisfied sexually. You only have yourself to blame.

[Harshbro]

Why ask strangers on the internet lol. Communicate with ur partner what u like and don’t, if it’s beyond his control so be it. Might have to move. Good sex comes from being attracted #1, having chemistry, passion + stamina and a big hard enough cock lol

[slatyb]

That's not possible. You can either find a solution with your partner or end the relationship.

[JayBones2469]

Know that your vows and integrity will always be worth more than a 15 second orgasm. Masturbation is a thing and they have AI, sex robots and sex toys that no human could compete with. Besides. Your with your lover because you love them right? Right?

[DizzyDesii]

Try different things until you both find something that can satisfy the other

[Jamie05rhs]

Crack the whip and make him give you what you need.

[Bklynbadboy12]

You can't leave him if you don't he's gonna get hurt cause sooner or later your gonna cheat

[Bklynbadboy12]

Do you think you can teach him how to please you

[TonyMetal___86]

If you're in a happy relationship, how can you not be satisfied sexually? 🤔

[jahaims]

Communicate better so you can be satisfied or pick a compatible partner

[Anonymous]

Sounds like your missing the smash and dash. This should tell you something about YOU.

[Asker]

So you're saying good dick is only attached to f boys? LOL

[Opinion Owner]

😆 no hun, I'm saying just do what you like. If you're this old and haven't figured it out by now it would do no good to explain it to you.

[Asker]

I've done everything I was supposed to. I've spoke to my spouse. I've suggested going to the doctors it's always an excuse

[Slim57]

You communicate that you're not being satisfied and try, if they still can't then you accept it or leave

[Goku1001]

You don't.
Rather you try to find ways (together) that would satisfy each other!

[Anonymous]

The acceptable answer to this question OBVIOUSLY depends on whether you are a man or a woman.

[dustybiker2]

Don't be afraid to speak up.

[JustAnotherGuy09]

That's what hands are for.

[JamesRandiDebates]

You get someone on the side.

[lildkman90]

I can’t I’m so small I just fall out like a boy

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Prostitutes

[dudeinohio]

you don't

[jjj101010]

Masturbation?