Should I cut contact or have a final conversation?

[Anonymous]

When someone initially shows a lot of interest in you, but then suddenly starts acting cold and distant, it's evident that something has changed between you. Despite attempts to address the issue, they insist that everything is fine. However, it becomes increasingly difficult to ignore the obvious shift. At this point, you may wonder whether to go no contact or have a final conversation with them to express your concerns. If they refuse to communicate, it may be best to end contact, as pretending that everything is fine becomes unsustainable. If you decide to cut contact, does it equate to a breakup?
Will the other person eventually return? If they don't, and you were the one to suggest cutting contact, is it appropriate to reach out again in the future to gauge their interest? If so, how long should you wait before doing so?

[blueonblack22]

I think your attraction and your own ego for this other person is making you struggle to judge the situation clearly. I’ve been there myself and I realize how much this sucks

But my advice is to withdrawal from her if she’s not reciprocating your efforts and respect.

[coachTanthony]

Why would you reach out again hoping they feel different? Billions of people on the planet and we just can't leave the ones who don't want us alone. Cut contact... NO final conversation.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ah, the classic tale of hot and cold - it's like a dance but less fun, isn't it? If someone's giving you the cold shoulder after a heatwave of attention, it's your cue to tune into your feelings and needs. A final conversation can be like closing a book you hoped had more chapters – it gives you closure and confirms that you've made every effort to address the elephant in the room. Remember, it's not about breaking up if you were never officially together, but about respecting yourself enough to say, "I deserve better."

If you decide to cut contact and they come twirling back into your life, make sure their actions match their words this time. You're not someone's rainy-day choice. And if you're contemplating reaching out after giving them the silent treatment, give it at least a month. This gives both of you enough space to clear your heads and maybe, just maybe, miss each other's quirky texts. Remember, love shouldn't feel like solving a Rubik's cube in the dark. If it's meant to be, it'll find a way without you having to play detective. Keep it light, keep it bright, and always prioritize your happiness. 😊✨

[laly520]

cut contact

[Asker]

Just like that? For someone like me, I find it disrespectful to walk away from someone without any explanation. Having a final conversation allows me to walk away knowing I tried my best to save the relationship.

[Pennywise_6]

Cut contact.

[Romasona]

Find someone else

[In_Trance]

Who is the someone?