Agree or Disagree: Men are afraid that Alpha Males will steal their girlfriend if they get one?

[coachTanthony]

Agree

Disagree

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[msc545]

No, the more worrisome thing is that due to hypergamy the woman will actively seek out someone taller, wealthier, or better looking. And of course eventually she will do this in virtually every case. If you happen to have a LOT of money it may prevent this temporarily, but remember there is always going to be a guy with even more money eventually.

So the concern is what with the woman does, not what some guy might do.

[coachTanthony]

I think many women would go for a broke tatted up jail bird because they are more addicted to drama and aren't smart enough to stay or go for more money.

[msc545]

for a quick fuck if is good looking, yes. Anything much more, hell no.

[coachTanthony]

Sure if the woman is smart but not many are... Many women these days are living that "build a bear" lifestyle. Grabbing a poor ass tatted up dude who treats them like shit thinking they are smart enough to change them into something of substance.

[msc545]

There are probably some of those, but I don't have contact with them except as patients occasionally.

[worldscolide]

Lol no, my wife would look at a man like that and call him pathetic.

[Siri137]

LOL. So THAT thing there is your idea of "alpha"? An ugly bald guy with a beard and tattoos? He looks like a criminal. And look at the bimbo beside him. Most women aren't like her, and thankfully don't want to be either. She's all plastic. He probably had to inflate her to get her to stand beside him like that.

[coachTanthony]

There both millionaires... it's just a photo lol

[Siri137]

So they're millionaires. So what? If becoming a millionaire entails selling out, betraying who you are or those around you, or trying to be someone you're not, then I'd rather be poor.

[coachTanthony]

The point is to show men what kind of a man some women go for and that is a former criminal all tatted up with a mean look on his face. Are they scared of their woman leaving them for a guy like that?

[electromagnetic]

I wouldn’t necessarily say Alphas. I think more so men we are extremely interested it and if that’s the case, the relationship was doomed in the first place.

[Billlewis]

I think in your case, it's a moot point, because there's no way you'd ever date a guy who wasn't an alpha male, and firmly ensconced in the top 2-3% of the men in the world.

[AI Opinion]

Diving right into the deep end, aren't we? Men, just like everyone else, may have insecurities that their partner could be swept off their feet by someone else, be it an "Alpha Male" or anyone they perceive as a 'threat'. It's less about being 'stolen'—since partners aren't property—and more about the fear of not being enough. The key? Confidence, communication, and trust in your relationship. Cultivate those, and your bond will be as unshakeable as your belief that you’re the right choice for your partner. Flying solo or in a duo, remember, you bring unique value to the table. 😉

[coachTanthony]

Wow look at Love Doctor Brad acknowledging ALPHA MALES exist. Take it in people ha ha ha

[electromagnetic]

Brad is a damn lie.

[coachTanthony]

@electromagnetic LOL.

[HawkPerception]

I'm no alpha, but I'm no beta either. If the girl was so unfaithful that she could be stolen like that, then I'd be genuinely relieved that the alpha dude saved me some time. But I'm pretty confident in filtering so that problem doesn't come up in the first place.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I disagree.

It's not something I waste my time on questioning. If there comes a time when she doesn't want to be with me any more, I'll go find someone else who does.

The thing is though, she's as happy being with me as I am with her!

[IslaTheWitch]

there are no alpha men, so nothing to be afraid of

[coachTanthony]

starting to think you might be one in disguise. lol

[IslaTheWitch]

lmao

[Cheapskate]

Bruh, that "girl" looks like a man

[coachTanthony]

Not sure what men you been hanging around... got something to tell us? lol

[Cheapskate]

Her face is entirely fake, she has a strong jaw and muscles. No offense, but that's a man, dude.

[coachTanthony]

You been watching too much shemale porn man... lol just because she has had some work done doesn't make her a man lol

[Cheapskate]

Some work done? I have no idea what she really looks like.

[coachTanthony]

That is Morgan Osman go look her up... FFS

[Cheapskate]

Her surgeon sucks

[NathanDavis]

not in the least... well, not me

other people out there might be insecure about many other things as well

[sawno]

Nah, if I have a loyal girl who loves me immensely it doesn't matter who walks by she'd remain with me. Girls only begin longing for other men if not satisfied / fulfilled in the relationship.

[OfMiceandMen]

hahaha, I would not be afraid of something like that happening. If it ever did, then he's not the problem... she is, and I would bid her adieu.

[alice55]

They're concerned in how they can get a hotter girlfriend rather than being afraid someone will steal the one they have.

[Redstang88]

Lmao no. “Alpha males” are the biggest joke around
But I know she’ll change her mind and ditch me eventually so fuck it

[Starrrboy]

Only betas cuz they have to work for it.. alphas and sigmas wouldn't care even if the girl leaves...

[Theworldislost]

If he can "steal" that girlfriend then it was just my turn with her.

[Ironic_Method]

God this is so cringe.

[coachTanthony]

So sorry it hits home for you.

[Ironic_Method]

Says the "coach" who believes in "alpha males". Embarrassing.

[coachTanthony]

When did the fear set in?

[Ironic_Method]

The fear that people can be this dumb? About 4 minutes ago.

[coachTanthony]

You only get one life... don't fear it kid.

[The_Sexpert]

Only Non-Alpha men

[Billlewis]

Oh, absolutely!

[Anonymous]

No. At least I wouldn't. I don't know why a guy would. If you lose her she was never yours to begin with.

[CrabCakes11]

Alpha males aren’t a real thing