42 year old woman with a 30 year old man?

Question

I fancy him, I’m 42 and he’s 30. Is this weird?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Not weird , if you are both happy , but the chances of that relationship lasting the long haul might be slim. The reason I am saying this , not to be rude but because Most Men are attracted to a girl for her beauty first , if you lose your beauty to him , he might eventually leave you for someone his age or younger. Why it’s better for a girl to go for an older guy or a guy she is close in age with , if you were only a few years older than him? then that’s not a big deal , but the age gap you have with him might catch up to you in the long run if you lose your beauty with age ,

SomothErgai · Accepted Answer

I'm 37 and my girlfriend just turned 23. we've been together since she was 20. No it isn't weird. literally the ONLY question that matters in any relationship is this. Do you make each other happy?

As long as the answer to that is yes, then there is nothing wrong with your relationship at all. if the answer is no, and you stay together anyway. then yes. that would be weird.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm a 40 year old woman with a 26 year old man (which is a bigger age gap than yours).

At first I was worried because I thought the age gap would be weird. However, as time went on, I realized that we connected on so many important/fundemental levels (much more than ex-boyfriends I had that were my age) that the age difference didn't matter.

It's not about the age difference. It's about how well you two connect and how compatible you are.

If that's the case, then the age doesn't matter. And it's not weird at all.

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

if you both enjoy it, then  nothing else matters  :D

DaveJord · Answer

Not as long as you keep it in perspective. You start talking seriously about stuff, and the fun will end.

Avicenna · Answer

Not at all- you're both adults.

patrick994 · Answer

It is not so strange, there are many couples with much wider age differences, if you get along well together, there is no reason to feel weird or worried.

If you are a very beautiful and attractive woman and look at least 10 years younger, the difference will not be noticeable.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I dated a 41 year old when I was 24. The only weird thing was the disapproval of her family and friends, which torpedoed it.

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing weird about that. As long as you two are happy. Assuming he wants you as well. It’s fine. Stop being concerned about what others may think. It’s your life, it’s his life. Make a happy life together if it’s meant to be.

OtterMan68 · Answer

not at all. You're both adults and older than college age.

justarandomperson_55 · Answer

until you both are

-happy.

-respect eachother.

-know about the love language of each other.

-Budgets are sorted among each other.

I don't think so you should think about what others think. Be happy and respectful.

Theworldislost · Answer

It's fine just be honest with yourself about the possibility that it could end or he may sleep around.

ManOnFire · Answer

Not weird at all, that is fucking hot. I love older women❤️

Mr_twoface · Answer

Age cap is never weird unless you make it weird in your mind!

Caliguy88 · Answer

Not at all. I’ve been with that age difference before. Not really dated, but slept with / hooked up etc. But I would date that age difference if I found the right person.

OddBeMe · Answer

I think after 25-30ish age gaps can be shrugged off. It’s taking advantage of inexperienced youngsters that’s the problem. By 25, they’re experienced…maybe dumb…but either way you’re in the clear.

onedarkcloud · Answer

Not in my book! Enjoy and don't worry about anything said detrimentally they are just jealous of you enjoying your life. Hell what would they say about me if I were dating you LMFAO

Fireguy17 · Answer

nope not at all, you're a Cougar! Enjoy, you deserve to have some fun.

Anonymous · Answer

You should watch White Palace. It worked out just fine for Susan Sarandon. Aside from that, I'm not sure it matters that much, you're both established adults.

Starrrboy · Answer

Just don't expect anything long term cuz the gap is too big and after some time he'll go for a girl his age..

genericname85 · Answer

it's not weird but i'm not gonna lie, i would not go for a girl that's 42 when i'm 30.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

If the feeling is mutual go for it, but also be realistic about your needs and his needs.

Ironic_Method · Answer

Weird? A bit. But if it works, then go for it. Hope it works out for you both.

DrPepper12 · Answer

No!!! As long as it's legal, safe and consensual HAVE A GREAT TIME and FWTT!

cootjuhh · Answer

love is love. i be loved much younger girls on my life

dinojames22 · Answer

No. I lost my virginity to a woman 15 years older than me

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

What a pervert!

JacobJordan · Answer

Nope. Only weird if you make it weird

exitseven · Answer

Why not? If you both like each other , go for it

Anonymous · Answer

Soooo, why does your profile say you're 34?

bolverk · Answer

If you're both happy why worry

soe11 · Answer

Not at all dear, as long as you enjoy.

Iron_Man · Answer

Usually, it’s the exact opposite

Sam12348 · Answer

If you both get well along then it's fine

CubaPirate · Answer

Not at all go for it girl

Anonymous · Answer

Only if you expect longevity.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

A little. Fuck it.

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