Me 27 year old male her 43 year old married woman?

[G0lden0ut22]

So for awhile I’ve been talking to my dental hygienist who is married. We hangout all a lot we kiss we did the deed etc. she knows how I feel about her and I know how she feels etc. she is so stuck on the age gap thing cause she’s never dated anyone younger than her. She thinks she’s ruining my life etc. she told me she is really considering leaving her husband she has tried many times leaving and her friends have tried many times before. Everytime she tries her husband reminds her that she can’t afford it and she gets scared and stays she has very high anxiety. But maybe this time she will actually leave. Who knows but she’s told her friends about me and all of this. I am truly in love with her it’s not because of this taboo relationship I fell for her from the moment I saw her. I don't know what to do because I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place. Cause who knows if she will leave her husband. What do I do it sucks knowing she isn’t mine and all I can do is support her. I have my life together I have a good job I’m in the process of buying my own house and all of this so I’m mature enough for her I don't know

please help!

[Finchie40]

Don’t get your hopes up my friend , I been in your shoes a handful of times with married women , she is just going through a midlife crisis , if she truly didn’t love her husband and she was unhappy she would of left him by now , but sadly she is playing the both of you. She isn’t going to leave her husband and everything she has invested in her home and finances , she knows she will lose it all if her husband finds out she has been cheating on him with you , because he will get her for adultery which will mean she gets’ barely nothing from the divorce court. She just likes the convenience of you , she enjoys the sex with you , she doesn’t hate you but she is just using you. Her husband probably doesn’t fulfill her in bed anymore. So she is screwing you for that fulfillment that she isn’t receiving at home. Every married women I had sex with , was absolutely amazing sex , because she was craving to get her world rocked , her husband no longer rocked her world why she came onto you. So do yourself a favor man and do not fall for this girl or you will be heart broken when you realize she is just using you , She is clearly a user by her saying she can’t leave her husband for financial reasons , so what do you think she would do to you if she did leave her husband for you? Use you as well. Move on my man , you are just a piece of ass to her.

[G0lden0ut22]

Now what if she married the wrong person? What if she is actually scared to leave her husband because she has become dependent on him and hasn’t been on her own for awhile? What if she actually sees what I’m saying and is getting the confidence to actually leave what if she actually sees the man I am and I can help her and give her the love she’s not getting and doesn’t cheat

[Finchie40]

Does she have kids’ with him? If so she isn’t leaving him , if she doesn’t have kids’ with him , she would have left already man. And moved in with you. I know this girl is rocking your world man , I been in your shoes a handful of times , but I am just trying to help ya out man by telling you not to get your hopes up. If her husband finds out about you , he will more than likely divorce her and she will come to you , but don’t bank on that either man , because the one married girl i was screwing and her husband found out , ended up giving her a second chance. You are best to put your foot down to her and tell her if she wants to be with you, tell her she needs to divorce her husband and no more of this running back and fourth shit , put her ass on the spot and stop thinking with your dick for a bit , I know it’s hard but you have to do this so you have an answer. She will either leave her husband for
You or she will stay with her husband

[BonzoInBitburg]

If she'll cheat on her husband she'll cheat on you too

[PeachyPie93]

Don't ruin the family.. Plus if she can't just divorce the guy when she is unhappy and has her own job but sleeps with someone else, what do you think she will do to you? Plus if she leaves him and things go bad for her she will blame you for it. I say just leave her alone find someone way better and closer to your age and stop fucking married woman..

[itsannalee]

Don’t ruin anyone family.
Don’t be home wrecker…that’s not classy. If she is a good woman, she could divorce her husband first before she meet other man. If she could leave her husband now for you, it not impossible for her to leave you for another man later.

[G0lden0ut22]

Now what if she married the wrong person? What if she is actually scared to leave her husband because she has become dependent on him and hasn’t been on her own for awhile? What if she actually sees what I’m saying and is getting the confidence to actually leave what if she actually sees the man I am and I can help her and give her the love she’s not getting and doesn’t cheat

[itsannalee]

That’s not your responsibility, her choice her consequences. If she married to the wrong person, she would have divorced her husband before meeting you.

She cheats on her husband with you is already red flag. There is no married good woman who kiss someone else.

Don’t be so naive, you are 27 not 17 yo.

[G0lden0ut22]

You are right on not being naïve. There is just this connection between us I love this woman and can’t get her out of my thoughts

[itsannalee]

She doesn’t even love you, or her husband. She just love herself, and thirsty for young man. Because from her age, she is on her 2nd puberty.

So just get someone single and get over it.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the joys and woes of a forbidden love! You're riding the rollercoaster of emotions, and who wouldn't feel that rush? 🌟 With your dental hygienist, it seems like you're debating whether to hang on or let go. You've already earned your own badge of maturity with your stable life, but now's the time to decide if her unavailability is a red flag or an opportunity.

The age gap is less of a problem than the fact that she's committed elsewhere. If she's really considering leaving, she'll need to do it for herself and not for anyone else. Be patient and let her make that decision independently. Keep those love goggles on, but make sure you're protecting your own heart, too. You deserve to be with someone who's truly available. 💔

[FunkyMonkee]

Me, 23 single M, her 19 married F, after 4 months, she went back to him.

[Awantika03]

Don't ruin her family

[G0lden0ut22]

I’m not though that’s the thing