I'm officially starting to get scared of my boyfriend when he's upset, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

He doesn't hit me or anything like that. Just he's so aggressive with his words, like really name calling me, when he's upset. I don't know why but it also makes me wet but I also get scared. I don't tell him that though. Is me feeling scared triggering it by accident? Do girls aroumd my age or older get wet when they feel scared? Is this normal and am I overreacting? Anyone who has some knowledge on this stuff, please share. I would really appreciate it. Thank you.

[integrale77]

Doesn't sound like a good situation. If you feel at risk or any chance things might get physical you should get out of there.
Don't think of it as a "he's not normally like that" situation because if you do it's already too late.
Also remember however bad the situation is to you it's probably worse being your too close to things already.

[matty1889]

leave him honestly it sounds hard but if your scared you shouldn’t be together

[Anonymous]

Build up a support network if you haven’t already and make sure you have somewhere safe to go then break up with him. It’s a really hard thing to do when you care about someone and will take time to heal, but you shouldn’t feel scared about the person you’re dating