Is it bad that I didn’t tell my mom I went to see my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

My mom almost ended up calling the police she try to FaceTime but i didn’t answer I was taking a nap with my boyfriend but I did call her back and she was saying where am I at and I said I’m coming home now mama I ended the call and he said I’m probably not going to see him no more and I said what if I get kick out and he said i won’t baby and I said what if I do and he said we will figure out something baby I think he was trying to hug me but I was scared and panicking so I had to text my friend and get her involved she was saying asking who do she want her to lie to so I can my friend to talk to my mom but my mom was like I don’t think you went with her and I was like why you say that she said because you said that I won’t let you do that and she said that if I was going somewhere at least I should of left a note I know all of that wasn’t the brightest idea

[Confucious900]

I tried following that, but sounds like you still live under your parents house, and you have to obey their rules. If she knows you have a boyfriend why didn't you just tell her you went there. Unless he is waaay older than you and she doesn't like him.

THere can be many interpretations of this story. But you should never lie because safty is still a concern. One day as a parent you will understand. Reverse the roles, if your kid went somewhere and you didn't tell them. How will you find them?

And also getting a friend to lie with or for you is not that good idea. Because the more you lie the more you will have to remember. And always backfires in the end.

[Asker]

Yes I still live in my parents house she didn’t know I had boyfriend this time because every time I tell my mom about my relationship they always ends I like to keep my relationship private and I wasn’t ready to tell her just yet but I was giving her hints so I can build my way up to telling her I had a boyfriend I know it wasn’t a good idea for my friend to lie for me but I was panicking because she was about to call the cops but I have talked to my mom about it she said I can be with him if he thinks it can work out and help then yes and I told him those exact words and he said he never broke up with me and I said you think you can work it out and he said why can’t we we was alright to begin with and we might be going on a date soon hopefully just can’t go to his house tho

[Confucious900]

Honesty sometimes gives you results you never expected. I'm glad you talked and it worked out.

[Asker]

That’s true and aww thank you!! I’m glad I talked it out even though it wasn’t easy!

[Confucious900]

Sometimes truth isn't easy but its the best way to go about things. Its the right way to do things. Even if its painful or difficult.

[Avicenna]

Well, that depends on how you usually handle such things

[molonski2]

No , its a bit disrespectful though , end of the day you are an adult and you make your own decisions so buggar her , its essentially none of her business

Buy the way..
' I think I am not going to see him any more " .

[In_Trance]

why wouldn't you tell her?

[Asker]

Because she going to say I just want to fuck and call me a whore when that’s not the case

[In_Trance]

if you know that's not the case, what does it matter what anyone else says or thinks?

[Asker]

I don’t care what anyone wants else thinks but I just don’t want her saying that in my face 24/7 she did that in public even got my brother in the conversation it’s embarrassing sometimes

[OtterMan68]

Honesty is the best policy.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, because she was worried about you.