Part two of is it bad that I didn’t tell my mom I went to see my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

She got mad and said that I have a kids mind a and that I’m simple minded and I told her the reason why i didn’t let her know because I didn’t want her to get mad and that she wouldn’t let me see him if I did tell her and she said you don’t know that and she can play stupid dumb smart and she was calling him ugly and retarded and that he is old but I almost have the same age gap as my parents when they was younger and she was saying that he doesn’t like me and I said well how did you know that dad liked you and my brother was saying that my Marquis is not interested in me and that he doesn’t know anything about me and I was telling my brother that I been talking to him since I was 17 and he wasn’t trying to listen to it and when I was telling my mom that she doesn’t let me do anything she said she does let me do stuff and I told her I wanted to go to Dallas and she said she didn’t want to go and I said that’s why I don’t tell you what I want to do because you won’t let me do it

[Oliverlogan263]

Ughh sounds like your mom is overreacting big time sis. Calling your boyfriend ugly and retarded, that's just mean!

She shouldn't be judgin him like that if she don't even know him. People used to give my mom crap about dating my dad too cause of their age gap but they've been together forever so she's bein a hypocrite.

I get why you didn't want to tell her, she clearly doesn't trust your decisions. But sneakin around ain't good either. You're both adults, she needs to chill. Your brother's no better jumpin in either, let you live your life!

Next time maybe try calmly explainin your side, like how you really like this guy and want her support even if she disagrees. Hopefully with time she'll see he makes you happy. Don't let em get to your self esteem, you know your relationship best. Keep doin you sis!