Older men are more stable, mature and sure of themselves. They are less interested in the pussy and more focused on the person. I mean we still want that chemistry, but we also want more than just that. If we just want that, then we will be honest about it if that is all you are looking for then we can do that.
You said, "Isn’t it more save for women just to date and don’t get pregnant to be financially stable? Then why everyone try to marry?"
I think this true for most men as well.
I think most men with a brain would agree with this statement or question. I don't want to get you pregnant, and I am more than happy to promote your desire to be financially stable on your own, and we do not need to be married to have fun and be together. You can care for and love someone just as much if not more outside of marriage as you can inside of it.
I mean how many people stay married just because they are married? How many people are truly happily married? I stayed in a marriage for years, and I was very unhappy. I would stay with someone and be just as loving, supportive and caring because she and I choose to, without requiring marriage and children.
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I think there are advantages and disadvantages to both. Personally, my outlook on relationships is the same today as it was when I was in my twenties -- to put everything else aside and concentrate on what's really important -- her pleasure.
I certainly wouldn't want to date someone that much older than me
They can be more stable. Doesn't mean they are better.
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I think any relationship with an age gap larger than 9 years. Is a risky proposition. You generally do not have much in common at that point. Also if you're worrying about him leaving you for another woman. Or him dying then you shouldn't even be thinking about marriage. Because you do not love him and you're marrying for the wrong reasons.
It varies like any other relationship. Don't date someone that's sloppy or struggling if you don't want to deal with their baggage. That's not an age thing, it's a maturity thing.
Well you’re 25 it shouldn’t be anybody’s problem. It’s your life you're old enough to decide and do what you want
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