We both cheated but is it strange I don't feel any regret?

[Anonymous]

For 6 months I've been trying to communicate our issues, things making me unhappy and how it's better we break-up, that I wanted out. He kept pleading me to continue the relationship and even said he would overdose if I left. My resentment began.

Fast-forward to last Saturday:

I caught him texting the other girl and it was them cheating for 2 months. This obviously led to an argument and him pleading for another chance. At this point I blew up and said these things "well you know what, just like you had your fun so did I just last week. I only regret not having sex with him though, just him doing oral on me." Then for some reason I just started laughing. I found everything funny.

I still don't regret it. Is this weird? I really don't feel bad. I was going to confess anyway. A bunch of consecutive birthdays in the family and work stress delayed that a bit.

Updates

+1 y

No I don't love him. I hated how he made me believe he would overdose if I ever left.

[AI Opinion]

Diving straight into the heart of your drama, let me play devil's advocate with a dash of love wisdom on the side. It's not strange to feel a lack of regret in your situation, especially after enduring emotional turmoil and feeling unheard for so long. Relationships are like a dance, and when the rhythm's off, toes get stepped on. Your laughter and absence of regret could be a defense mechanism, a release valve for all the pent-up frustration and resentment. It's your inner self saying, "Enough is enough!"

However, let's not forget the emotional rollercoaster you've been on. Using someone else's wrong actions to justify our own can lead to a vicious cycle that leaves everyone hurt. It seems like it's time for a serious reflection on what you truly want moving forward. Remember, the end goal is personal happiness and peace, not winning the argument. Let's aim for a resolution that brings you closer to that, rather than building walls around your heart. Keep the communication channels open, but this time, with yourself. What does your heart really say?

[laly520]

both at wrong n u need to move on from him if u haven't yet