How important is your partners history to your decision to be with them?

[SecurelyInsecure]

[IslaTheWitch]

you mean their past? it depends... I take my time to get to know people, I don't decide who will be my partner or not... it somehow happens, during the process, when we both are into each other

None of my partners had an extensive history in any meaning, so I didn't pay much attention. What was happening between us was much more important...

but I think that the past forged us but doesn't define us I'm just not into extremes...

[mandyfire98]

Partners history in what way? Thats a broad subject.

[SecurelyInsecure]

sexual history

[mandyfire98]

Nope, not at all. As long as they didn't do anything illegal really. I couldn't care less about their body count.

[SecurelyInsecure]

Oh Okay! right now im in a open relationship, and we were planning on doing something extra spicey tonight. Just afraid that when I develop a relationship, I might get a lot of negative feedback on it.

[mandyfire98]

Negative feedback on an open relationship?

[SecurelyInsecure]

the sex itself specifically.

[mandyfire98]

I'm confused I think lol

[SecurelyInsecure]

lol its okay. probably nothing you care about anyways haha

[mandyfire98]

Some people are going to not like your sexual choices and some will. It's compatibility really. Just go with who you are compatible with.

[SecurelyInsecure]

I think its largely just cause of the double standards of it all.
It really shouldn't matter, but I know plenty of women that will say "NO THANKS" if they knew

[mandyfire98]

Sadly there are always double standards in life.

[SecurelyInsecure]

thats a true fact.
Even trying to find people on here to talk about it
nearly impossible

[mandyfire98]

Well I hope you find what you're looking for. Godspeed to you.

[SecurelyInsecure]

I hope so too!
Question, how open are you to sexual topics?

[mandyfire98]

I've never shied away from sex. Sex is normal.

[SecurelyInsecure]

What do you think of group sex, threesomes, foursomes.. that type of thing?
I am still learning the ropes, had sex maybe a dozen times, but not sure if I am ready for that? Should I give it a try?

[mandyfire98]

Only if you feel comfortable. I've had threesomes and foursomes with couples and I enjoyed it. It just depends on if you're comfortable with other people being involved

[SecurelyInsecure]

I would like to try it! needing some advice on it I guess.

[mandyfire98]

Just be safe and have fun, just relax is all I can tell you. You'll have a good time.

[SecurelyInsecure]

probably be sore too..

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the deep end of love, aren't we? Partner history is a bit like a spice mix in a gourmet dish—it can add depth, complexity, and sometimes a bit of heat. The flavor it brings to your relationship feast really depends on your palate. Some see it as a treasure trove of insights, helping them understand their partner's love map, while others might find it a distraction from the 'us' they're cooking up. My advice? Talk it out, understand what ingredients matter to both of you, and remember, it's the present dish you're savoring together. Just make sure you're both comfortable with the recipe! 😉

[Paige90]

Not important