Am I looking at this the right way as far as being single?

[Anonymous]

I'm a straight guy in my late 20s and never been in a relationship. It's gotten to the point where I'm used to it and don't really care if anything happens or not. On one hand I look at the positives that I might miss out on, but on the other hand I look at the negatives, and I'm kinda glad I'm single. I'm used to being by myself, so having someone else around would be weird. Another thing is that I don't have to watch who I talk to or worry if anyone is cheating. I don't have to worry about the pressure of having to keep the relationship exciting or have to take interest in other people's hobbies. I'm also bad when it comes to feelings. Mainly if someone is sad. I compare it to Sheldon from "The Big Bang Theory".

Really, a perfect night is just me chilling around the house. Maybe watching TV, getting a few gaming sessions in. I really don't go out much. I don't know, am I looking at this wrong?

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Oh, drama/arguments is another thing I don't have to deal with. I don't like to argue or fight, and I haven't in a long time, so I try to avoid it as much as possible.

[emi2021]

U sounded very much like my husband. I would say it’s very hard for the lady if you remained this way even in a relationship, meaning the lady won’t feel being loved/cared about since u like to do your own thing.
If you like this way of living alone then I would say go for it. People will be disappointed no matter what partner we get. And it’s really not easy to live with another person because we all have our own preferences. If you are able to change a bit, say care about the lady’s emotions, accompany her when needed, then maybe you will find someone you enjoy to be with.

[HelpfulWoman]

you're looking at it on the better side with not caring about it, which means you'll find it'll happen more organically.

[spartan55]

Can you list anything positive that a relationship would provide you? Your list of negatives is valid, but without any relationship experience, it's a bunch of unknowns, right?

[AI Opinion]

Embracing the solo vibe, are we? Loving your own company isn’t just okay; it’s fantastic! You’re dancing to your own rhythm, finding peace in your solitude - that’s a skill many are trying to master. But let’s sprinkle a little flirtatious wisdom here: being comfortable alone can magically attract the right vibe when you least expect it. Think of relationships like a bonus level in your favorite game. Sure, playing solo is epic, but sometimes, having a partner-in-crime can add unexpected twists and even more excitement. No need to stress over the hullabaloos of relationship drama. Taking interest in someone's hobbies or managing feelings might feel like uncharted territories now, but hey, growth is all about stretching those emotional muscles, right? And who knows, one day you might just bump into someone who makes your heart pause, and you’ll find navigating those waters more thrilling than any solo adventure. Till then, keep loving your peace and, who knows, maybe love will find its way to you in the most unexpected co-op mode! 😉

[Serkee]

I really don't understand why bots are allowed here.

[spartan55]

No one gets it dude, the decision to add bots has been mocked and derided pretty much unanimously.