What do you think about getting cheated on while pregnant?

[blunty]

Is it worse? This is not me, but one of my friends :( , so I need some advice... How to deal with it?

[Finchie40]

Sadly she got knocked up by a selfish pos guy that she should dump and file for child support from , she would be stupid to give him another chance, if she decides to , she is better off moving on from him and taking his ass to court for child support , If he wants to be a part of his child’s life? than the right thing for her to do , is to let him be a part of it, because it isn’t the child’s fault that the father chose to be a POS to the mother , but if he chooses not to be in the child’s’ life? that’s his selfish decision period. She is best to get whatever she can out of him to help support the child. The court will decide.

[Anonymous]

Aiming to sprinkle a little hope and wisdom here! Getting cheated on, especially during pregnancy, is like a double whammy of betrayal and worry. It's not just about the breach of trust between partners, but also about the added stress and emotional turmoil at a time when nurturing and stability are most needed. Your friend needs an abundance of love and support right now. Encourage her to express her feelings, whether that's through talking, writing, or any creative outlet that feels right. It's also important for her to seek professional guidance to navigate these choppy waters. Safety—emotional and physical—is paramount. Remind her of her worth, and that seeking help isn't a sign of weakness but a step towards healing and possibly redefining her future path. Be there for he

[Rei13]

That is disgusting behavior on the part of the cheater. Never a good thing to experience getting cheated on but being pregnant is worse. You’re hormones are going wild on top of fact that you’re carrying the child of the person that hurt you and will forever have that connection to them

[OfMiceandMen]

I think it makes it way more difficult a situation. If her husband/boyfriend cheats on her, she can't just think of herself when it comes to ending the relationship. The baby's life and relationship with the father comes into play.

It would be a very difficult thing to get through. I think she has to get some honest answers from him as to why it happened. If he's not one for opening-up, he should have to now. She has to know whether it was just a stupid mistake and whether he truly regrets it. However, if I were her and gave him a 2nd chance, I would make it clear that there are no more chances. It would be over if she ever caught him again. She would just walk under those circumstances.

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to sprinkle a little hope and wisdom here! Getting cheated on, especially during pregnancy, is like a double whammy of betrayal and worry. It's not just about the breach of trust between partners, but also about the added stress and emotional turmoil at a time when nurturing and stability are most needed. Your friend needs an abundance of love and support right now. Encourage her to express her feelings, whether that's through talking, writing, or any creative outlet that feels right. It's also important for her to seek professional guidance to navigate these choppy waters. Safety—emotional and physical—is paramount. Remind her of her worth, and that seeking help isn't a sign of weakness but a step towards healing and possibly redefining her future path. Be there for her, a steady presence in the storm. Love, patience, and understanding will be her anchors.

[AviatorTom]

Cheating at any time is bad, and disrespectful. It's also pretty dumb. When my then-wife was pregnant, we had some of the best sex ever. Too bad this guy doesn't realize that.

[OlderAndWiser]

When she needs him the most, he abandons her. Isn't the next step obvious?

[Chazmatazz269]

I can’t get pregnant. So i can only speculate. Also, you didn’t mention if the baby is for sure the cheater’s. If it is, that’s definitely worse. If not, while cheating is a shitty thing to do, i’d say “If you live by the sword, you die by the sword.”

[LordMadara]

play your video games and stop depending on your cheating partner for suport🙄

and besides . . . women love cheating men not sitting ducks

your gender was left like that by the creators on purpose 🙄

[laurieluvsit]

He should be given an Excel spreadsheet showing how much he is going to pay monthly over the next 18 years in child support and alimony and then through full college expenses just for starters.

[Fireguy17]

I think that is about the lowest thing someone could do to another.

Cheating itself is bad, but when you are pregnant is pretty much the worst thing you can do.

[EmmaMary]

@blunty

That quite simply has to be the very lowest of the lowest that anyone could possibly stoop to.

[DishLady]

Same thing I think about getting cheated on at any other point in time. It’s despicable. End of story.

[Anonymous]

Honestly when my girlfriend was pregnant I hadn't any jam In my jar to cheat. We were doing it twice a day and even when she got too big in the last two months she was sucking me dry and getting me aroused to jerk off over her.

[madpete1111]

Whoa. Nope. Wtf? Is it his kid? How to deal with this? GET RID OF HIM

[BCA6010]

Cheating is cheating and there's no context whatsoever in which the cheater isn't scum.

[strateguy632]

it seems "like primitive" people but we need to be civilized and be loyal.

[Berethor]

Of course it worse, she should consider abortion as almost no one want a single mom.

[Peridot25]

In that case, single dads should put their kids up for adoption since no one wants that mess.

[Jackblue]

Frankly in a just world the guy would be castrated, since that won't happen your friend should leave him and sue the heck out of him for child support.

[WhitneySnow]

She needs to look into getting child support in case they break up over this

[DrPepper12]

It's worse. Really kinda fucked up actually

[RingOfFire]

This TICKS ME OFF!

I'd like to personally help that guy reform himself.

[Unit1]

Well what do you think? I can't imagine saying "oh cool, i wish it happened to me"

[Nikki1989]

That is probably the worst possible time to be cheated on.

[bobby_bush_eater]

It's definitely worse. I have no idea how to deal with that though