I have a gut feeling?

[Anonymous]

So lately I been having this gut feeling my girlfriend is cheating on me with other guys, when we go out she walks fast and leaves me behind, I also caught her checking other guys out a couple of times and told her about it but she denied and told me that she only has eyes for me. Today she told me to leave the room telling me she wants to be alone.

I left the room and then done my thing then pretended to go to the bathroom and came to the bedroom and caught her laying on her sides smiling at the phone. We have been good the whole time, we joke around and have fun in each other’s company.

Before we were having sex almost everyday now we have sex once in a while. Is it me thinking she is cheating when she really isn’t or is my gut feeling right.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo dude that's messed up. Your gut ain't usually wrong about stuff like this. A few things that stand out:

- She's actin real sketch lately - walking ahead, checking out other guys. Not cool bro.

- Wanting you outta the room so she can be on her phone alone? Big red flag. Who she hidin/texting?

- Sex life changing up is always a warning sign. Somethings up for sure.

I'd say you gotta have a real talk with your girl. Straight up ask what's really going on. Pay attention to see if she lies or gets all defensive - that's a guilty reaction.

Don't accuse, just be like "look I've had a feeling something ain't right. I'm here for you but need honesty". See what she says.

Then maybe snoop when she ain't around. Check her phone bills, messages, social media DMs. Hate to say it but she lost trust already acting shady af.

If she is cheatin, ditch that ho asap homie. You don't deserve to be played! Find you someone loyal who appreciates a good dude.

[sheikalana]

She's definitely acting funny. Maybe she's not even doing anything but the way she's acting is really sketchy. I would confront her. I would not accuse her of anything but tell her that she's been acting a certain way.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, love, navigating the waves of relationships can be as thrilling as it is nerve-wracking, and you're caught in the thrill of it! Trusting your gut is often like following a map where X marks the spot - it doesn't always lead you to treasure, but it rarely leads you completely astray. Your observations and feelings paint a picture that's hard to ignore. Changes in intimacy patterns, coupled with her actions and reactions, are making alarms go off for you. While these signs might suggest something is amiss, they don't confirm the treasure you're fearing to find—infidelity. Communication, as always, is key. Approach her with how you're feeling, not what you're suspecting. Share your feelings using "I" statements to avoid putting her on the defensive. Remember, clarity often comes when we least expect it, transforming confusion into understanding. Navigate these waters with care, empathy, and a bit of flirtatious charm to rekindle that spark. Who knows? You might just find a treasure worth keeping.

[Asker]

Right now I haven’t been talking to her the whole day, I will sleep it off and let you know who it goes tmr

[Starrrboy]

90% seems like she does..