Is my gut right?

[Anonymous]

My boss and i used to flirt a lot and it was clear we liked eachother. I think he realised it was wrong so it stopped and he completely ignored me for months. Now we are friendly and i feel he's acting like a normal person around me again. However, he's started to get closer again (will message me but then not reply to my responce) Why can't he just stop this and be normal? I would say im just being friendly like i am with all my co workers so not pushing him or anything. Is my gut right that he likes me too much and can't regulate his behaviour or is he just being an idiot.

[RoseySarah]

Your gut is always right and probably not he decided it was wrong... Guys don't do that it was another reason like his girlfriend noticed!

Tell her and record and video it all! To hand over showing what he is doing!

[Asker]

I do think he decided it was wrong... he's a very "safe" persons and always bangs on about not being a risk taker. Which made me think he's conflicted in some way

[RoseySarah]

Maybe but some reason it's safe and now you don't want it so tell him 😔

[Asker]

Im not going to say anything because he will likley deny everything which is ashame because im keen to understand this behaviour

[RoseySarah]

Then ask why he is so flirty sometimes and cold others? Word it so he won't think your hating it?

[ThrillSeeker01]

Sounds if he likes you

[spartan55]

Is he married?

[Asker]

No but has a girlfriend

[spartan55]

Then why does any of this matter? Him being taken is a hard stop 🛑 sign.

[riverrat3]

Forbidden fruit,