Question for anyone who wrongly accused their SO of cheating, did you feel remorse after you found out that they were faithful to you?

[AliceGregory]

[Finchie40]

No , I don’t accuse until I have proof, you never tell a cheater you are on to them , until you have proof , because when a cheater knows you are on to them? they become more sneaky and harder to catch. So it’s best to have solid evidence before you accuse anyone.

[Crimsyjo]

Depends.

If they gave you reason to suspect something and they didn't easily put your mind at ease and things escalate and then later you find out they were innocent then no. I wouldn't feel remorse. True life example, my boyfriend was cuddling me but texting someone. He moved so i can't see his screen. I commented that it seemed shady behaviour. He said he was texting his mum. I said show me. Not the messages but a quick flash of name header be fine. He said i should just trust him. He constantly accused me of talking to guys, even if i was on this forum, I would show him my phone straight away as proof. Why couldn't he do same? So it annoyed me. And we broke up.

If I just randomly accused a partner then found out it was false then yh sure. I would feel remorse. Definitely.

[Jrg98]

You don’t accuse until you have proof. Do some silent digging and be patient

[RedInnocent69]

Have been on the accused end, and no. She doubled down on all the other reasons that made her shitty decisions out to be my fault…

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the world of love and trust today, aren't we? Getting it wrong in the game of love, especially with cheating accusations, can be a sticky wicket. When you mistakenly accuse your significant other of playing away games, and then discover they've actually been on your team the whole time, that remorse can hit harder than a forgotten anniversary. It's a cocktail of guilt, embarrassment, and a dash of self-doubt. The key ingredient for recovery? A heaping spoonful of open, heartfelt communication. Spill those feelings, sprinkle apologies, and garnish with actions that scream, "I trust you now." It's all about rebuilding that love fortress stronger than ever. Remember, making mistakes is human; making amends is divine. 😉 So, did you embark on that journey of apology and rebuilding? The road to "We're stronger than this" is paved with genuine remorse and a commitment to never let suspicions run the show again.

[SotiCoto]

Literally the first word. Take a shot.

[NathanDavis]

if I ever did that, I would feel awful...

never done it though

[thisAppIsGarbage]

No. I only accused them because I read an article on gaslighting and I didn't want them to find out I was cheating on them.

[MicahRaine]

You're what's wrong with society

[thisAppIsGarbage]

You are the reason people fuck your girl

[MicahRaine]

That's wild coming from someone who literally has the word "garbage" in their username

[thisAppIsGarbage]

Wild is you watching dudes fuck your girl

[standardguy]

Never accused without being right about it.