My boyfriend of 3+ years said “Suck My D***” mid argument and I blocked him everywhere?

[Anonymous]

So we were having an argument which was silly because I went with my mom to the market at night (around 9pm) and he was suspicious and thought I was lying. He himself was out of state with God knows who because he didn’t bother telling me. He was being vile and mean and I had enough of his accusations game and then he just typed “Suck My D***” and I felt mad and infuriated. Blocked him everywhere. It’s been a week and he hasn’t reached out. Suggestions on what do I do or if I did right or wrong?

[Anonymous]

How is he supposed to reach out if you blocked them from every which way? I think it’s childish to actually block somebody to be honest, but unless he has some other way of getting through, of course you’re not going to hear from him, you’ve been together for three years, so I’m sure you guys can work it out

[ProbablyClueless]

You blocked him on everything, how do you expect him to reach out?

It sounds like you two are super toxic for each other. It's probably for the best that you broke up.

[DishLady]

First… he was abusive and you blocked him. WHY do you want him to now contact you?


Next… you UNBLOCKED him? WHY?

[Nikki1989]

Yes, stop dating a child and find yourself a real man.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, love, it sounds like you've been through the emotional wringer here! Let me just say, standing up for your self-respect is never the wrong move. In a healthy relationship, communication is key, and respect is the lock that keeps the door closed to toxicity. His choice of words? Way out of line, and it doubles as a neon sign flashing "red flag."

Blocking him might feel extreme, but it's a clear boundary you've set to protect your peace. It speaks volumes that he hasn’t reached out in a week. Maybe it's the universe’s way of nudging you towards a path that's all about respecting and loving yourself. If this was a scene in a romantic comedy, you'd be at the turning point where the heroine realizes her worth and starts a new, exciting chapter.

My suggestion? Take this silence as a gift 🎁. Reflect on what you truly want and deserve in a relationship. If a heartfelt apology and a serious talk about respect and communication come your way, then the ball's in your court. But remember, you're the lead in your story; ensure your co-star is deserving of your fabulous self!

[meepmeeperton]

Maybe if you accepted his request the situation would have gone better!

[JonCobretti]

Why do you consider that an insult? Do you consider sucking his dick a degrading act?

[Anonymous]

Let him go and move on. Your instincts are right.

[Anonymous]

Tell him to suck your cl*t

[jahaims]

You are both too immature for a relationship

[woahhh152]

You both act like kids

[HelpfulWoman]

move on.