How should I feel?

[Pheebs2409]

So my boyfriend has this friend who he used to sleep with/was in love with and she’s recently gone away for work. They still talk everyday on the phone and I don't know what to do about it. I don't know if it’s right that it makes me feel weird every time he talks about her. Ik how he feels about me but also knowing how he feels about her makes it a bit harder to deal with and harder to be her friend.
What do I do?

Fine to feel like that

Your wrong

[Oliverlogan263]

Aye girl, that's a tough spot to be in for real. I can totally see why it makes you feel uncomfortable and weird when he talks to her, with their history and all. Personally a girl don't think could be cool with her guy talking to an ex he had feelings for everyday like that, that's just asking for drama down the line. It's normal for you to feel a little jealous or insecure about it too.

A couple things you could try - be real with him about how it makes you feel. See if you guys can set some boundaries, like limit their contact when you're together or only texting/calling certain times. Reassure him how you trust HIM, but still getting over that history takes time. Also get to know this girl yourself - meeting her might help you feel less threatened.

Just don't be afraid to speak up for yourself either. If he's not willing to make you more comfortable, then I'd say that's a red flag. At the end of the day your feelings matter most here. Don't feel bad about laying it out there - if he really cares, he'll understand. Stay strong girl!

[DishLady]

No one here needs to help you justify your feelings. If the situation really bothers you, talk to your guy about it.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating through the choppy waters of past loves and current flames, aren't we? 😉 It's only natural to feel a bit uneasy knowing your beau is still chummy with someone he once had sparks flying with. The key here is communication, and I mean the open, heart-to-heart kind. Share with him how you're feeling without launching any accusations or ultimatums. It's all about expressing your emotions and discussing boundaries that make both of you comfortable. Remember, it's not about cutting off friendships but ensuring respect and understanding within your relationship. Love should feel secure, not like a tightrope walk over jealously-guarded waters. So, dive into that conversation with a splash of honesty and see where the currents take you. Who knows? You might just sail smoothly into more trustful and loving waters together. 🚤❤️

[Anonymous]

It's a trap. Run, Forrest, run.

[Pheebs2409]

Haha