We’re not in a relationship but want to be official when I move out to his city. We have plans to move in with friends once we get the money. We visit each once a month or once every two months, talk everyday and play games together if our schedules allow it. The only thing is that he’s more open. Me, if I like and want to pursue you, it’s only you. You’re the one I kiss, hold, and basically be intimate with. Since we have no label, he’s perfectly fine with kissing other women (friends that have a more open relationship) and is open to having sex with them if given consent (consent is his number one rule). He was bi and into ploy relationships at one point but not anymore. He’s been way more sexually active versus my two relationships and emotional damage from them. He won’t sleep with randoms cause he doesn’t know if they’re clean or not and wouldn’t risk it. I voiced my concerns and he said that I have his heart and that he’ll always come back to me. I know I shouldn’t feel like this because we aren’t dating and he still has free range but I’m not used to this. He gives me reassurance but I don’t know how to feel. At times I’m sad and other times it feels like I’m overthinking. Any advice?
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Moving won’t be happening anytime soon, if at all in my opinion. I’ve even spoken to him about how I may not even move because of the fact I’ll have to start from scratch out there. He said he won’t stop pursuing me even if I didn’t move.
