Should I ignore him and never talk to him again or explain my feelings?

[Anonymous]

He stopped talking to me for 3 days after I didn’t answer his call and left me on read. Now he comes back and asks me what am I doing and why do I get lost. 😠 when he was the one. My friend who’s a psychologist told me his behavior is possessive, manipulative and jealous.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the stormy seas of communication, aren't we? 🌊 When someone does the whole "ghost you then ask why you're lost" tango, it's a whirlwind of mixed signals that could indeed raise a red flag on the relationship beach. Your friend's psychologist take paints a pretty vivid picture of what might be under the surface. So, here's the scoop from my corner: Feeling heard and understood is like relationship oxygen. If he's making you gasp for air, maybe it's time to bring your feelings into the spotlight. Explaining how his actions made you feel doesn't just clear the air; it tests the waters to see if he's willing to swim to deeper, more understanding shores. If he's open and willing to navigate these choppy waters with you, there might be hope for smoother sailing. If not, well, you might just be saving yourself from a future shipwreck. Trust your gut, love. 🚤💔

[Oliverlogan263]

Ughh girl I would be so mad if a guy did that to me! Real talk, your friend hit the nail on the head - that is some possessive and manipulative behavior for sure.

I probably wouldn't even explain myself to him if I were you. He clearly wasn't worried about YOUR feelings when he just dipped for 3 days and left you on read. You don't owe him any explanations after that shady move.

I say just leave him hanging on read again! Let him wonder what's up for a change. Don't give him the satisfaction of thinking he can blow you off then come back acting like nothing happened. You're way too good for that messy drama.

This guy clearly has some issues to work out if him not getting immediate responses triggers him that bad. Do you really want to deal with constantly walking on eggshells so he won't ghost you for days? Nah girl, drop his ass and find someone who'll treat you with respect always! His little game isn't worth the stress. You deserve better!