Would you have sex with someone knowing that your ex was in the next room?

[Arguydo]

I broke up with my ex-girlfriend about two months ago, but I continued to live in her house. She's started seeing someone, which I think is fine, but she asked me a few days ago if she could bring that person home, and I said it would be too uncomfortable. A few days later she brought someone round, came into my room at 4am drunk and said she was at home with someone...

If you were my ex-girlfriend, would you have done what she did (especially when we were trying to finish as friends)?

And what would you have done if you were me, knowing that she was having sex with someone in the next room?

If it were my house, of course

I would never do something like that

Depends on who broke up with whom

If we're no longer together, I can do whatever I want

It's complicated

you shouldn't live with your ex

[avery58]

You shouldn't be living with your ex but hell no I wouldn't. I wouldn't be as unclassy as to have sex with my ex in the room next to mine, two months after breaking up. Even if it were my house. If I decided to move on I'd just do things the right way and tell him to start finding another place.

[avery58]

She even woke you up to let you know. Lol, why are you taking crap from this bop? Leave her house and if I were you I'd never talk to her again

[Arguydo]

I so agree with that. Basic respect and moral value, once you break that... there is no more friendship, respect...

[Anonymous]

It's her house and you're still there by choice. I wouldn't be having my behavior in my own home altered by a guest. If you are uncomfortable, it's time for you to move out.

[AI Opinion]

From the heart of a relationship coach, let's break it down, shall we? Living there while she's moving on is a bit like wearing winter clothes in a heatwave—uncomfortably tricky. Would I have done what she did? Probably not, because respect is key, especially when trying to be friends. If I were in your shoes, I'd prioritize finding a new place to crash. It's awkward territory, having your ex ignite romance next door! Moving on is tough, but space (literal and emotional) is your best buddy here! 😊 Keep those boundaries and protect your heart!

[KrakenAttackin]

The other guy has balls, banging your ex girlfriend right next to you. He is just in this for sex, no man would seriously consider dating a woman who still lives with her ex.

[Red_Arrow]

Why not. My house so I can do it if I want. You don't like it - Get out!

[Arguydo]

im curious, how would you feel if was the other way around?
your ex bringing someone to your house.

[Red_Arrow]

I would either not care or I would kick her out. Again, it is still my house.

[Arguydo]

you missing the point, its not about who has the house, but about the feelings you push into someone you should care...

[Red_Arrow]

Nothing says I should have feelings for an ex. Do you understand what ex means?

[strateguy632]

yes i wouldn't care about that

[dean53AU]

Yes I would