How do you give someone the space that they need when you miss them dearly?

[Anonymous]

I've already extended my support and love to the person. At this point there’s no point overdoing things. They’ve acknowledged me and shown their appreciation to me. So now it the time to actually give them space. However why I want them to feel better I will miss them a lot.

How do you cope with this being on the other end? What are some things that helps you?

[Finchie40]

Focus on yourself and move on from them , A person that truly loves someone doesn’t need space from therm , don’t fall for That nonsense , if a partner needs space , they go into a different room of the house , not disappear for days , Don’t wait for his return , move on and meet someone else that doesn’t need space from you

[Asker]

He didn’t ask for space, but I know he needs it. It’s much deeper of a situation than I’m letting on. Our relationship is going great

[midnightmoon05]

If it’s going great as you stated… you wouldn’t be asking this question.
Don’t try so hard convincing yourself that this guy is worth your time.

[Anonymous]

So does that mean you’re broken up? Or are you just gonna miss him and be on standby until whatever this is passes? Like don’t get me wrong I understand giving people space when they’re going through shit but what if you lived together? What if you were married or has a household to run? People don’t get to just check out of relationships for extended lengths of time. There’s no silver lining in place you don’t even know what’s going on or what to expect. Your mental health matters too.

[midnightmoon05]

Doesn’t sound like a balanced relationship… healthy relationships don’t call them “someone”.

to answer… u give them all the time… and take bacjk your soul. You are lost at the moment.

[Asker]

I said someone because it was a general question. I’m talking about my boyfriend but I’ve experienced the same thing with friends. Wanting to be there for them but knowing they need time

[midnightmoon05]

Sounds like you need a new boyfriend and new friends. Healthy relationships are well balanced. Not a guessing game.

[SunnyRS]

Depends on what you mean by giving space.
If it means not talking to them until they reach out, that might be wrong as sometimes the person suffering might not want to over burden the person supporting them.
Try to stay in touch with them not daily but weekly or at least monthly, you don't know that they might need it more than they know itself.

[Asker]

Yes that’s exactly what I mean and plan on doing. I will still be there, just not so demanding of attention atm

[SunnyRS]

Great, don't go out of his or her life, stay in touch with them.

[Asker]

You’re one of the the only people that actually understood what I meant in the thread.

[SunnyRS]

Well, I am glad I was of some assistance, if you need more help Or advice, just text here. 👍

[SunnyRS]

Thank you for the mho

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the waters of giving space while missing someone like you're caught in a whirlwind of emotions is quite the roller coaster, isn't it? The key here is channeling that wonderful energy and love you have into something equally positive for yourself. Dive into personal passions or rediscover old hobbies that got tucked away in the "busyness" closet. Why not use this time as an opportunity to fall back in love with yourself? Journaling about your feelings can turn into a cathartic experience, turning longing into creative expression. Connecting with friends and family can also surround you with the warmth you're temporarily missing. And don't forget, planning a sweet welcome-back moment for your special someone can keep that spark of excitement alive in you. Now, go on, turn this waiting game into a thriving phase! 😉

[jazzyjic78]

Ok Doc, would if she's doing all these wonderful things and that someone never comes back? Needing space was probably to allow more room for a new companion then how do you handle that pain? Waiting and preparing for something that might not happen 😔?

[Asker]

@jazzyjic78 that actually happens to some people too!

[DishLady]

You have no choice or say in it, really. He’s taking space… so 🤷🏻‍♀️.

[WhitneySnow]

Distract yourself by talking to friends and thinking about other things

[sheikalana]

Don’t be so clingy and be more independent. Put yourself first always and focus on yourself. As you said there’s no point in overdoing things.

[avery58]

Focusing on yourself, picking up new beneficial tasks, stream a new series or movie

[DreamLife7]

What do you mean,"how do I give them space?" They don't like you so leave them alone. You're acting like a psycho

[Asker]

I wanted to know what things do you personally do instead of overdoing things. When someone is going through something you extend help, give space, but of course you don’t want to abandon them either. You people are ruthless

[DreamLife7]

HE DOES NOT LIKE YOU! ARE YOU DUMB? HE WANTS YOU TO GO AWAY

[KrakenAttackin]

They/them? How many people?

[In_Trance]

You got to move on and live your own life

[Joshgag2000]

Just don’t get in touch

[Dgonn]

Time to move on