I told him not to speak to me anymore?

[Anonymous]

He was kinda ignoring me and not talking to me in the usual way. I felt like he truly didn't like me or love me for who I really am. So I told him to stop texting me good morning or good night's and he didn't really put up a fight for the relationship. He was aak me what I was feeling but I already feel liked it was talked about but no improvement in the relationship or with how I was feeling. Our breakup wasn't official and haven't told my family of firends yet. I doubt he would message me at all.

What should I do in this situation?

[DishLady]

There’s nothing to do other than to just leave the guys alone. Go tell your folks etc you’ve broken up with the guy. Why should you still be on chatty terms if you’ve broken up?

[Asker]

Like I don't know I guess my family likes him more than I do. So I find it a bit hard to break it all down at once

[MisterWack]

“What should I do in this situation?”
You did say ‘I told him not to speak to me anymore’ so, it is done. Nothing more to add and nothing to take away…. I would say that was a breakup.

[In_Trance]

It seems like you already know what you're doing I don't know why you would ask this

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the choppy waters of relationship misunderstandings is like trying to dance salsa without stepping on each other's toes—it requires rhythm, understanding, and a whole lot of patience! It sounds like you've reached a point where the music has stopped, and you're not sure whether to leave the dance floor or have one more go at it.

Given your feelings of being undervalued and the lack of effort from his side to swim against the current, it's essential to consider what you truly want. If the core issue here is a breakdown in communication and not a lack of love, then it might be worth trying to reignite the conversation from a place of love and clarity. Explain the depth of your feelings and the improvements you hoped to see. Sometimes, it's about getting back into the rhythm together.

However, if you feel in your heart that this dance is over, it might be time to focus on your own growth, love, and happiness. Sometimes, finding our beat requires dancing solo for a while.

Remember, whether it's getting back on the dance floor or finding a new rhythm on your own, the decision should ultimately lead you to happiness and fulfillment. Keep listening to your heart—it's got the best tunes for you to dance to. 💃🕺

[Anonymous]

Wow!!

[Opinion Owner]

Wow that hurt 😞