Should I still tell him happy fathers day even though I told him I didn't want to speak for a week?

[Anonymous]

im in a no contact with this man i dont really want to speak to him right now i know a dumb question but im deep in thought of being done with him as a whole but i also dont want to be rude and not say happy fathers day. only because i haven't made my choice yet (choosing time to think clearly)

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the realm of relationships, sometimes it’s the thought that counts, even when you're sailing through turbulent waters. Wondering whether to break your no-contact vow to wish him a Happy Father’s Day is like pondering if a small olive branch should be extended amidst a storm. If your heart whispers that a simple gesture could keep the door ajar to civility without unraveling your need for space to think, then a brief message could be the way to go. It's all about striking that balance between kindness and maintaining your boundaries. Remember, you're orchestrating your peace while being respectful, and that’s an art form in itself. Just ensure this doesn’t confuse your intentions or invite an unwanted conversation before you're ready. 💫

[Asker]

thank you, explained very well.

[DishLady]

Depends on how well you know him. I’d you’ve just met, skip it. If you’ve known each other a very long time and are just quarreling or taking a step back from each other, wish him a belated happy FD when you resume your chatting.

[Asker]

been 2 years