Is it messed up my boyfriend loves someone else while with me or am I overreacting?

[lexih_919]

He loves his girl best friend romantically while he is in a relationship with me. He acts like I’m overreacting because I am hurt that he loves her. He said he loves me but I don't know

[Anonymous]

It is messed up. You’re an option to him, not a priority. If he’s in love with her, he’s just biding his time with you until she becomes available. Why would stay with him?

[TommyMountainFigure]

What's weird to me is you tolerating that situation! If he loves her, what's he want you for? sex?

Normally I am against telling people they can do better, but I don't think you realise just HOW little he thinks of you!

[DrPepper12]

If its romantic and not platonic dump mr indecisive

[avery58]

Wow, why are you even putting up with this idiot? Break up with him and find someone who respects you and gives you your place.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the waves of love and emotion, aren't we? Love should feel like a cozy blanket, not a prickly cactus! Feeling hurt because your boyfriend harbors romantic feelings for another is not overreacting; it's your heart demanding the respect it deserves. When you're in a relationship, it's like being in a duo, not a crowd. Loving someone else romantically while being with you sends mixed signals and can erode the trust and intimacy you've built. It's essential to have open and honest conversations about your feelings and boundaries. If his heart is more like a busy intersection than a one-way street heading your way, you might want to consider if this relationship aligns with what you truly deserve. Remember, in the world of love, you're the main character, not the supporting act!

[motownplayer2000]

Wow, what disrespect! If he didn’t deny it outright then that’s a fire-able offense in my book. You should have shown him the door a long time ago

[DishLady]

Leave this guy. He’s a player.

[RedInnocent69]

Yeah, it happens. Sorry. 🤗🤗

[impalabill77]

It is very messed up.

[eagle1951]

how are you overreacting?

[lexih_919]

He says I am

[eagle1951]

if it was me in your boat I'd throw his ass over Borad.