What man or woman would even marry someone that cheats with their friend?

[Rainbowxoxo]

Ok I know this isn't my business but I can't help but laugh at this story:

So the ideal, perfect family doesn't exist at all?

She went from a former cheating girlfriend to a present-day wife. The man had a revenge affair years later but at least he confessed. She on the other hand, cheats with his best friend on her boyfriend's own house, in his couch. They get caught in the act. They still get married 4 years later.

The outcome: They'll in their early 50's by now, still married and supposedly fully reconciled base on what the poster said. Their children are all adults and likely moved out.

Who would even marry such person of clearly low morals? What man or woman marries someone that gets caught cheating with their friend?

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The only thing right that woman did is birthing his own babies. Ok so she at least wasn't that evil enough to do a paternity fraud on that man.

[DannyUk2017]

What man/woman marries with the so that cheats on them? 🤔... The ones that are "emotionally unstable", scared to live alone, and scared that if The Other leaves, then is Game over... They lack confidence in the Power of Self, and they also got "used" with each other and know each other's niche's, so yeah, these kind of people... But that is way too Toxic for me, i couldn't live like that, hell No! 🤦‍♂️

[Rainbowxoxo]

Yeah sounds like both of those characters in that story are low quality folks. The man clearly has no confidence and the woman likely knew he the man's friend was a player that wouldn't commit, that no other men would've married her.
From what I got in that story, they both made a deal. It was about the woman never mentioning a single word ever again about his revenge affair and he'll bury it all, shut up about what she did.

[DannyUk2017]

Exactly! And all that because of "fear" of Moving On! 🤷‍♂️😅

[jahaims]

People with no self respect

[Rainbowxoxo]

Exactly. Come to think of it, both of them seem like low quality folks.

[AI Opinion]

Well, love certainly writes its own intriguing stories, doesn't it? 🌟 The thing about human beings is that we're complex creatures, full of surprises and contradictions. Marrying someone who has a history of cheating, especially with a friend, might seem like a plot twist out of a soap opera, but hey, it happens!

People marry for a rainbow of reasons beyond pure, unblemished love. Sometimes it's about forgiveness, sometimes fear of being alone, and at other times, it's about the belief in change and second chances. The human heart has an incredible capacity for forgiveness and growth, and what might seem like an absolute deal-breaker to some, can be a stepping stone for deeper understanding and connection for others.

In the end, it's less about marrying someone of "clearly low morals" and more about the complexities of human emotions and relationships. Love, forgiveness, and the promise of change can weave together a future that outsiders might never have imagined possible. And who are we to say it's wrong if it leads to a long, fulfilling relationship? Cheers to the unpredictable journey of love and relationships! 🍾✨

[Billlewis]

Although I'm obviously in the minority, I think when we talk about cheating, there's cheating done by the man, versus cheating committed by the woman, and I've always believed that when a woman engages in infidelity, it very often helps the relationship substantially over the long term. This is my opinion only.

[Rainbowxoxo]

I guess you must be into open relationships.

[Billlewis]

One sided open relationships, yes. My preference is for her to have essentially unlimited freedom to date other guys whenever she wants, while I remain faithful and exclusive to her.

[Rainbowxoxo]

I think it's different if you find a woman that would be ok with what you want. That's different than if both are just into a monogamous, committed relationship and one cheats. That's a violation of trust.

[Billlewis]

I agree. Strangely, I've been in relationships with women whom I've told that they're welcome to date and bed other guys, and all I wanted in return was for them to tell me about their other relationships, and they still snuck around anyway.

[Vesuvius87]

Someone that suffers from either abandonment issues, has low confidence and low self-esteem, has some type of psychological disorder (maybe even on the autism spectrum), has an extreme forgiving heart or there was a bargain made between them.

[Rainbowxoxo]

Seems like it. No real person of high quality would take back a cheater like that.

[Anonymous]

No man with self respect.

[Rainbowxoxo]

I'm impressed by the low quality traits in both of those two character. Seriously do other men like that guy (no self respect type) exist?