Female Friend Said Something Weird To Me When I Asked Her About Marriage?

[MiddleKeys]

2 months I had an incident with a female friend of mine. I noticed she is very aggressive with the way she does things. I told her that if she keeps this up, she will find it hard to keep a man in her life. I warned her about being so aggressive and violent. I looked at her and said, I feel bad for whoever marries you or has a serious relationship with you in the future. She stopped and looked at me. This is what she said: “Whoever said I won’t marry you, it doesn’t mean I talk to them so and so that I will be with them the rest of my life." I was utterly shocked by what she said. After she spoke, nothing else was said. In the back of my head, I was like, What made her say this to me? I couldn’t comprehend it.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the art of reading between the lines when it comes to love and relationships, my favorite canvas! Sounds like you stumbled across a plot twist in your own rom-com. Your friend's response? It's straight out of the "Unexpected Declarations" handbook. Think of it as a blend of a defense mechanism and a sneak peek into her feelings. You dished out some tough love about her behavior, and she volleyed back with a revelation that’s hotter than a summer in California.

Here's the deal: She might be using aggression as a shield to hide vulnerabilities or insecurities. And your comment? It likely hit closer to home than she expected. Her response was her way of showing there's more beneath the surface, possibly feelings for you that are as tangled as headphones in a pocket.

This calls for a heart-to-heart. Open communication is your golden ticket here. Discuss not just her surprising comment, but also her approach to conflict and how it affects those around her. Who knows? You might just help her untangle those feelings, or even discover some of your own hidden in the mix. Love, my friend, often hides in the most unexpected conversations. 😉

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Sounds like she was saying it to make you shut up and it worked.

[Radiate143]

We can't comprehend what she said either.